Pissed off friend. should i care?

[marleyskater420 5,000+ posts]

Last night i got pissed at my good friend because he wants to do acid, and his only real reason is that like, he wants to see what artists saw and understand shit or something. Basically no real reason except for its fun, and it want to.

I also yelled at him and said that he doesnt pay for shit, that he couldnt take care of himself, and that his parents give him everything, and that he needs people to hold him accountable because he would be nowhere without it.

Now this kid has always been an outcast, and he is obssessed w/ psychological drugs and think because he has read on the internet, and done 3.9 grams of SHITTY *** shrooms, that he knows it all.

Also, his parents bought him his car, and have put helllla money into. They also got him another car becaus the first broke down. Technically,the 2nd car is his dads..but its "his" car. He doesnt pay for his insurance, and doesnt pay for shit. Hes barely making it into college because he was a lazy fuk and didnt do an english essay,which he has no good reason for not doing.

Basically, I told him he doesnt know shit about drugs, needs to mature and realize doing acid and shrooms is stupid and if he needs them he is pathetic. That his parents pay for all his shit and he wouldn't be able to sustain himself w/out them.

I dont feel bad, should I?

Honestly,I really feel that way about drugs, and he really wants to do them for no reason...hes 18 and BARELY going to college(chico) and he doesnt realize mom and dad arent gonna be there when he fuks up...he doesnt pay for anything himself, and has had a pretty good life(besides being a kinda loser in JH and begining of HS).

just wonderin your thoughts, thats all.

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[Acidburn 5,000+ posts]

sounds like a real upstanding character //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/rolleyes.gif.c1fef805e9d1464d377451cd5bc18bfb.gif

 

[djjdnap 10+ year member]

man some people just want to fuk thier life up. They dont think about consequences b4 acting,

I wouldn't feel bad.

O/T

this girl i know is moving to texas after meeting some guy online, she still ives at home and frosh in college. This guy said that he would marry her. LMAO and i;m like u neva met the guy, so she pays for him to come visit for the weekend, her dumbass paid 350$ for this guy to fly here, not to mention hotels expenses(sp).

And she let him hit the day b4 he left, lol, dumbass,

but to make a long story short, i scolded her for being a dumbass, and we are no longer friends. And i don't feel bad about not being friends wt her i feel bad because she is prolly gettin ready to fuk her life up, but u neva know it might turn out good...

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

No, you should not feel bad because 1) you showed somewhat concern for him doing stupid things, thats what friends are for, if hes pissed then **** it. 2) you told him how it is, and maybe what you said (the truth) will wake his as* up and make him change for the better.

 

[Ignatowski 5,000+ posts]

experimenting with drugs is very common,its the ones who never out grow the need to do drugs end up dead or lost in a wasteland

 

[req 5,000+ posts]

his problem is he dosnt do anything for himself, everything is handed to him, and his parents are basically promoting his 'im a lazy ****ing piece of shit' aditude.

everytime his parents give him somthing he wants, it just tells him that he can keep doing whatever the hell he wants, and even if they dont like it, he still gets what he wants.

he needs a summer in army camp my friend.

 

[WheresTheButta 10+ year member]

ok, I've done alot of drugs acid included.

people told me not to do them, but I didnt listen

I didnt realize it was a problem until my friends didnt want to hang out anymore

If he has to choose between drugs and friends maybe it will wake him up like it did for me.

if not, people have to make their own mistakes and learn from them - nothing teaches someone like life experience.

edit: I hated acid, and it ruined my pot smoking career; I got flashbacks all the time.

 

[Expy2000]

Sounds like one of my friends..

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[LoudCrownVic 5,000+ posts]

Since I've only eaten mushrooms after people snuck them into my food while I was a little drunk, (I had *** with my bedspread while they watched and laughed, one time and hid under my car for four hours the other time while they shouted "Tornado") I can't blame you for trying to stop him. Drugs in general are a distortion of reality and if he doesn't like his car and all the stuff his parents gave him, then he might as well do the drugs and see where they take him.

This case, if they don't already know, tell his padres something is up. THere is no sense in letting him give up on life this early, he might thank you for it later. This is really the parents' fault, they might as well be the try to fix it.

 

[SlimShady16 10+ year member]

^ good xample of why ill never try that sh*t! Im sorry bout ur friend but i can relate as can many people who (had) friends but they took drugs over them. Idk dont feel bad I yell at me friend atleast 2 times a day and it seems like it might be doing something after all.

 

[T9X 10+ year member]

I say beat the snot out of him.

 

[ighettoboyi 10+ year member]

let him learn the hard way, he'll learn

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

Also, his parents bought him his car, and have put helllla money into. They also got him another car becaus the first broke down. Technically,the 2nd car is his dads..but its "his" car. He doesnt pay for his insurance, and doesnt pay for shit.

my parents bought me my truck....which in turn broke down from age and mileage. then they bought me an 05 mustang. whats your point? cuz we are lucky enuff to have parents that want to help us get going were irresponsible? please dont say ur one of those people that wont take money if money is offered to u, cuz ur lying. if my mom offered to buy me another rl-p id be like "hell yah, thats awsome" **** tryin to "work hard for what u want" if someone is willing to give me something for my benefit im all for it. now i DONT USE PEOPLE i dont ask for rides, and not give gas money. i dont use something and not return it and all that, but i will accept something someone offers to me. that being said //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/toast.gif.bc0657bf54b9ee653b6438524461341e.gif

 

[Decipha 10+ year member]

i was involved with this girl for over a year and when i met her she was larger then life then she turned to drugs at first it was nothing big just a little chronic here and there then it turned to pills and coke now she's all messed up but before she started doing her drugs she made me tell her i would never let her fall with out falling with her so to make things better i gave her a choice, about 2 months ago we were at a friends house and she was about to take x so before she took it i walked over to the sofa she was sitting on and pulled out my sig and put it to her head i told her i love her and i don't wanna hurt her but either that gun was going to kill her or the drugs were (the gun wasn't loaded)... well what ever she was thinking she made the right decision because she didn't take the x but now we don't talk (for other reasons) and i hear about her doing drugs now and theirs nothing i can do but just let your friend know that if he continues down the road he's going drugs will claim his life

 

[Decipha 10+ year member]

my parents bought me my truck....which in turn broke down from age and mileage. then they bought me an 05 mustang. whats your point? cuz we are lucky enuff to have parents that want to help us get going were irresponsible? please dont say ur one of those people that wont take money if money is offered to u, cuz ur lying. if my mom offered to buy me another rl-p id be like "hell yah, thats awsome" **** tryin to "work hard for what u want" if someone is willing to give me something for my benefit im all for it. now i DONT USE PEOPLE i dont ask for rides, and not give gas money. i dont use something and not return it and all that, but i will accept something someone offers to me. that being said //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/toast.gif.bc0657bf54b9ee653b6438524461341e.gif

your taking it personally maybe your not like that but his friend is so why are you trying to compare yourself with his friend? You don't have a drug problem as we know but his friend does he's not trying to hurt his friend he's trying to help him, why are you trying to bad talk him about trying to help some one? All he's trying to do is help so next time STFU and get in line ho