here is the deal...
as long as the time average power consumption of the amplifier does not exceed the extra power ( ~40% of output ) of the alternator... nothing else matters, you are golden. The reason head lights dim when powerful bass hits is this: when the bass hits, LOTS of current is requested for the amplifier... almost like a short circuit. Well, this "short circuit" is much smaller than the internal resistance of the battery... all batteries have internal resistance, better batteries like Optima Yellow Tops have lower internal resistance, poorer batteries like those from Walmart have higher internal resistance... This internal resistance and the impedance of the amplifier create a "voltage divider", so the output of the battery drops... thus the headlights dim... the higher the current draw on the battery, the dimmer the lights, see? To correct this, apply a high discharge capacitor to the terminals of the amp... (1 Farad for every 1000 W, ie for 2000 watt system, get 2 Farads) Note: that if the amplifier pulls more power than the alternator can provide, no amount of additional batteries or capacitors will solve this issue...
Equations to know are Ohm's Law V = I * R
power W = V * I
efficiency = Pout / Pin
if you plan to have a system with over 500W of power