Nice to meet you, dude. We all can learn from you, sometimes, we get so caught up in me, we can't see the 'big picture'. And we lose touch with reality. My wake up came on 09JAN12, and then again, on 23JAN12. The 9th, at 0325, I found my wife of 8yrs, dead in our bed. On the 23rd, our son and I, were displaced by a F3 tornado, at about the same time, aquired $78,000 worth of damage. Opened up the ceilings in my son's and my bedroom, a limb about the size of my wrist penetrated the wall above his bed. In the midst of all off that, I had to continue to be provider, caregiver, and dad. You never really know what you are capable of, until you are challenged. I commend you for showing us who are, and my prayers go out to you. You are an inspiration to those that don't think that things can get worse. My favorite quote for times of difficulty is; "I once lamented about having no shoes, until I met the man that had no feet". Kind of puts things in perspective. Again, thank you for sharing, William.