How long would you wait for ***?

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

and oh yeah..i still regret to this day not banging the ex I was in love with..

Because now she is carrying another guy's kid who is in jail

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

and oh yeah..i still regret to this day not banging the ex I was in love with..

Because now she is carrying another guy's kid who is in jail

thats kinda like revenge by default. Sweet either way I suppose.

 

[joetama 5,000+ posts]

I dated some uber-skanks in high school, but despite literally going to bed with some of them, I never sexed them up. I don't think this is anything to do with respect for the girl (cause I thought they were walking ***** parties, no respect), more respect for myself. Why the hell would I want my first time to be with some drunk skank?
I was friends with this girl who was really classy, didn't dress skanky, didn't date around, didn't get drunk and pass out at parties. We were friends for 6 months, then we went to my senior prom together, and have been together ever since. We got married on our 5 year anniversary March of 2007. We were both virgins.

That said, the *** is amazing because we basically spent 5 years learning everything about each other's body, and we have *** literally at least once a day. She's gorgeous, 5'7", 125 pounds, curvy and beautiful. I don't regret for an instant not tapping some **** back in high school.

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Not doubting you or your choices.

But, if you would have had *** with her earlier lets say a year before you got married. Do you think your relationship would not be as good if you would have done this? Do you think that the quality of your relationship is based heavily on this fact?

Or is the quality of your relationship based on the fact that the two of you match?

 

[joetama 5,000+ posts]

thats kinda like revenge by default. Sweet either way I suppose.

At least it isn't his kid... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

At least it isn't his kid... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

true dat //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fro.gif.c695f1f814b01c4ad99fe7f8cccadd29.gif

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

The reason I am the way I am now is because of past relationships...
I loved this one girl to death...Still care for her to this day..I had only been with one other girl before at the time I dated this girl..We decided to wait to have ***..We never even messed around..I loved just the simple kisses, cuddling under the covers, etc...I wouldn't have traded it for anything..One night alcohol got involved and she told me she would do whatever I wanted to...All we did was kiss..I respected her more than that...She ends up cheating on me..

And then Pancakes cheated on me..

I have honestly not been the same since.

I haven't ever been cheated on but I know enough scandalous women to know that most are worthless.

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

I haven't ever been cheated on but I know enough scandalous women to know that most are worthless.

ive found that the women who are like that who finally do get cheated on themselves, finally learn their lesson and dont partake in that behavior anymore.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Can you see pictures at work Dan?

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

Can you see pictures at work Dan?

yes sir

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

How....I thought that no-photobucket rule was DoD wide.

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

How....I thought that no-photobucket rule was DoD wide.

There is, but I got a T1 leased line from Insight thats not regulated on the DoD backbone. sneaky eh? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/naughty.gif.94359f346c0f1259df8038d60b41863e.gif

 

[MarcRocks 10+ year member]

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Not doubting you or your choices.

But, if you would have had *** with her earlier lets say a year before you got married. Do you think your relationship would not be as good if you would have done this? Do you think that the quality of your relationship is based heavily on this fact?

Or is the quality of your relationship based on the fact that the two of you match?

I'm at work - after I get home tonight I'll put a picture up.

Honestly, the appeal was that she was too classy to sleep around. Even though at that point we would have been together for 4 years, that's still not married, and I think it would have shaken what I loved about her. Not to say we wouldn't be together had that happened, but I think it would have changed things, and maybe not for the better. Neither of us are religious but it was just a huge part of why we fell in love.

I'm obviously the exception rather than the rule, but I'm really happy and I wouldn't change a single thing in my life.

Also, I agree with the just raise your kids the exact opposite of how you were raised thing - I wouldn't wish my childhood on my future kids!

 

[joetama 5,000+ posts]

I'm at work - after I get home tonight I'll put a picture up.
Honestly, the appeal was that she was too classy to sleep around. Even though at that point we would have been together for 4 years, that's still not married, and I think it would have shaken what I loved about her. Not to say we wouldn't be together had that happened, but I think it would have changed things, and maybe not for the better. Neither of us are religious but it was just a huge part of why we fell in love.

I'm obviously the exception rather than the rule, but I'm really happy and I wouldn't change a single thing in my life.

Also, I agree with the just raise your kids the exact opposite of how you were raised thing - I wouldn't wish my childhood on my future kids!

Well great for you! I hope you have many happy years with her. If that works for you then more power to you!

Anyway, I would raise my kids exactly how I was raised... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

I guess I am a loner on this subject...

 

[BreakingBad]

i dont **** chicks right away. ive had the offer but if its a relationship i want to last minimum wait time is 2 weeks, longest I wait is about a month. after that theres really no point in waiting.

think about it, given that it isnt RIGHT AWAY...whats the point in waiting? as long as you know the persons character and personality, enjoy being with them..y not?

plus telling your partner to wait only gives them more incentive to go out and screw somewhere else.. #1 reason why people cheat: not enough ***

 

[newusername 10+ year member]

I think I'm really out of place on this topic because I have always been happy with my relationships.

For those looking to meet someone nice, here's a hint: she's probably not on the verge of passing out at a bar.

iceteebone mentioned he's learned a lot between 18-22 and I agree 100%. I'm 21 and I learned way more about how life really works between 18 and 20. Now I just hate life, but at least my woman is one of the bright spots.