Well, 2 months later I finally got the DEI 8611 mercury switches and installed them. Everything works perfectly now. If I pop the trunk with the remote, the alarm does not sound, and if I use the button inside or the key, it does sound. I believe this is because the alarm is opening the trunk when I use the remote so it knows to ignore that trigger temporarily. They were fairly simple to install, especially because I already had all the wiring still ran from when I attempted to use the relays. Next time I'll know to just **** it up and buy the mercury switches to save myself time and a headache. Thanks for all your guys help.