Buy a test light at walmart. Probably less then $10.Ground the light and touch your fuses. When the light goes on then you have power. I would also check which fuse your touching...check the fuse rating. Then for your acc turn on do the same thing with your keys in the acc/on position. When the light goes on, then keep it there and turn the keys off. If the light goes off then you have your power accessory wire.
Personally I wouldnt hack up the fuse box. If you must do it this way, trace the wire out of the fuse box and buy some splicers.
They go over the wire (leaving the stock wire intact) then you add your new wire. Some crimp..some clamp. Just make sure its solid.
This way you can take it off later and you didnt cut your stock wiring.