Having a baby, with my EX

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

Ugh,,, Stressed is an understatement.. Me and her do NOT get along anymore and its just bad ( our relationship ) ... She lives in a different town ( small town, ) and I live in a big town.. Im gonna be a good daddy, but I want my kid growing up in the big school system where I grew Up with 2000 ppl in the school, and the ex wants the kid born and raised in a town of 600..... where do I go and what do I do...???

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[T.I.K. 10+ year member]

sounds like a custody hearing is in order.

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

Seems like nobody wears condoms anymore.

 

[Boomsday 10+ year member]

go to court had a similar problem its fixed now

 

[-01limited- 10+ year member]

Grew up in a small town but always had access to a big city. Cant say I'd want it any other way. I think you lose the quality of education the bigger classes you have.

 

[Joseph M 10+ year member]

your fucked. shes going to win unless you can prove shes an "unfit" mother. Kinda hard when she isnt a mother yet. I would just **** it up.

All she has to do for custody is say i want to breast feed. Once she does that, that means no overnight visits for you, til after shes three. And after three years of full custody for her, good luck getting that changed. And plus if you go to court over "schooling" when the kid isnt even born; the judge is going to laugh and say come back to me when the kid is of age

 

[MorningWood]

So, you didn't know she was pregnant when the two of you were divorced?

 

[matt_bennett05 10+ year member]

Thankfully I haven't had these problems... Wouldn't dare imagine what it'd be like to be in your shoes....

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

So, you didn't know she was pregnant when the two of you were divorced?

i never married the *****... She just all the sudden got an attitude when she found out she was prego

 

[Joseph M 10+ year member]

divorced.... sounds like they were just boyfriend/girlfriend...? I would get that ish tested also... Rebound **** could of turned into prego and she knows she can stick you with it.

 

[hzsogood 5,000+ posts]

divorced.... sounds like they were just boyfriend/girlfriend...? I would get that ish tested also... Rebound **** could of turned into prego and she knows she can stick you with it.

exactly ,an.. thats what Im scared of

 

[Joseph M 10+ year member]

good luck man. Get a paternity test but beware i think once its proven that its yours, she can start getting money for the baby before its even born..

 

[jtomsic 5,000+ posts]

i grew up in a small town outside pittsburgh and would never want to live in a city from the stories i hear from people i work with..2 weeks ago a 7year old kid took heroine to school and passed it out to his friends thinkin they were stickers.. his parents are in jail now needless to say..but things like that never happened at my school..you knew everyone and everyones business lol.

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

Where is Maury at?

 

[i2ain2thunder 10+ year member]

Get ready for a whirlwind of ****. Sux u don't like her, ur gon be stuck with her for the life of your kid...if it is your kid.