Got Expelled Today..........

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

Do you have kids saywhat?
I can tell you personally that when a woman is pregnant, the guy is also just as involved (unless he's a heartless crackhead). During those 9 months (especially if it's the guy's first kid) the dad just sits there and wonders how the baby will like, how he will turn out, what kinds of things will he like, etc......the bond starts before the baby is born. To give up one's first born isn't just a saying, it's a very difficult thing to do....something that you would only do if you truly cared for the child's well-being over your own.....and it's not like he gave the child to some random adoption agency. He will still be able to see and visit the child.

And i'm sure the pregnancy wasn't planned....even with condoms and birth control, pregnancy can still happen. It's not like he say there and said, "hey, im bored, lets have a kid so we can give it up later"....it's one of those things that just happens and a selfish person would just go out and have an abortion....a caring person on the other hand wouldn't take the child's life.

nope sure dont. im not that big of a ****up at 19 years old. Im SMART with my penis. Amazingly I think with the head on my shoulders and not the one between my legs. Your right....you do get attached to them before they are born....yay good for you, he still gave a kid away that he himself made with his girlfriend. Now, why in the world should someone ELSE have to take care of HIS MISTAKE! All the kid is going to know is that his mother and father DIDNT MEAN TO HAVE HIM. That alone is "*******" material. I wouldnt want to be around people that didnt mean to have me.

so your aunt wanted a kid, do you not find it somewhat odd that your kid will still be around you, but not be yours? that to me is REALLY REALLY odd...

i still say your penis needs to be severed from your balls, just to save mankind. And your girl needs to be sewn shut. why NOT get an abortion? you knew you ****ed up at the get go, probably didnt care about the baby for the 9 months, was just trying to figure how to get the situation handled "good enough", so you threw the deal to your grandma, or aunt, or whoever that was. Im sure you werent aware in the 9 months YOUR GIRLFRIEND (not your wife) was carrying your ****up, that your aunt was going to take it. You KNEW you couldnt afford it, have time for it, nourish it, take care of it, yet you STILL ****ed your girl that wasnt on BC, and didnt use a ****ing condom. Wheres the genious in your situation? Your a mistake.

 

[creyc 10+ year member]

you guys are fegs.

The guy clearly f*cked up, and admits it! What's your point in even bringing his mistakes up again?

HE ALREADY ADMITTED HIS MISTAKE.

Step back and try to get the full picture here. It's not just his senior year thats "messed up", this is a life altering event. He has a kid, one that will develop and be loved by someone else, one who will grow up and go through school and face the fact that he or she was adopted. You don't think the OP knows this or feels responsible or at least feels the moral implications of putting his kid up for adoption?

I find it a bit rude that the school is pulling out on you, and leaving you high and dry. Yes, it may be a rule and yes its probably in their best interests to keep these things from "ruining their image or reputation" but the fact remains that no one knew about this incident and also TEENS MAKE RASH DECISIONS! It has happened before. The school is arrogant to believe their students are any bit more civilized merely because their parents are wealthy or their school is attached to a religious body. And leaving a former student to figure out life on his own shows the ultimate corruption of an educational institution who's primary goal may just not be education at all.

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

you guys are fegs.
The guy clearly f*cked up, and admits it! What's your point in even bringing his mistakes up again?

HE ALREADY ADMITTED HIS MISTAKE.

Step back and try to get the full picture here. It's not just his senior year thats "messed up", this is a life altering event. He has a kid, one that will develop and be loved by someone else, one who will grow up and go through school and face the fact that he or she was adopted. You don't think the OP knows this or feels responsible or at least feels the moral implications of putting his kid up for adoption?

I find it a bit rude that the school is pulling out on you, and leaving you high and dry. Yes, it may be a rule and yes its probably in their best interests to keep these things from "ruining their image or reputation" but the fact remains that no one knew about this incident and also TEENS MAKE RASH DECISIONS! It has happened before. The school is arrogant to believe their students are any bit more civilized merely because their parents are wealthy or their school is attached to a religious body. And leaving a former student to figure out life on his own shows the ultimate corruption of an educational institution who's primary goal may just not be education at all.

like he shoulda done his girl?

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

you guys are fegs.
The guy clearly f*cked up, and admits it! What's your point in even bringing his mistakes up again?

HE ALREADY ADMITTED HIS MISTAKE.

Step back and try to get the full picture here. It's not just his senior year thats "messed up", this is a life altering event. He has a kid, one that will develop and be loved by someone else, one who will grow up and go through school and face the fact that he or she was adopted. You don't think the OP knows this or feels responsible or at least feels the moral implications of putting his kid up for adoption?

I find it a bit rude that the school is pulling out on you, and leaving you high and dry. Yes, it may be a rule and yes its probably in their best interests to keep these things from "ruining their image or reputation" but the fact remains that no one knew about this incident and also TEENS MAKE RASH DECISIONS! It has happened before. The school is arrogant to believe their students are any bit more civilized merely because their parents are wealthy or their school is attached to a religious body. And leaving a former student to figure out life on his own shows the ultimate corruption of an educational institution who's primary goal may just not be education at all.

for the baby as well //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[mtdewelf 10+ year member]

Also I hate to turn this shit into a frothy abortion debate but for ****s sakes stop babbling about "the child's life"! When most people have an abortion the "child" is less of a human being than a mother****ing cockroach. Do you have a problem with killing a cockroach? This "it starts at conception" crap is so amazingly retarded that it blows my mind that in this day and age there are actually people that are so insanely ignorant that would base their outlook on mythology and what basically amounts to magic. What magic makes inhuman cells that will be human eventually special?
It's pure religious hogwash. Humans are no different than rabbits or apes or insects in terms of "specialness", but because you selfish *****s want to think that humans are somehow above every other piece of life you attach some magical extra value to even the tiniest most insignificant seeds of human life.

Let me ask you this:

DO YOU EAT EGGS?

HOW DOES THAT ABORTED CHICKEN ***** TASTE?

well I clicked link on top 10 threads and this is what popped up. I went back and read OP, not reading all this BS

Me and my girl had our son 4.5years ago, we were ~16 when she got pregnant, she graduated, and I dropped out to work full time, abortion wasn't a option TO US.

But I don't understand how people can be against abortion though, living in a life that most would consider torture is far worse then being terminated, w/o knowledge of what's lost.

To the OP, in all honesty it's hard to respect someone who can create a child that would have been brought up by it's father and mother who would of been loving parents(right?) but decide to give it away when born.I assume you aren't living in poverty simply based off the fact that you are on a CA forum and go to private school so to me it doesn't make sense ofcourse this is just my opinion and I didn't read entire thread so who knows if you've answered anything here but eh.

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

well I clicked link on top 10 threads and this is what popped up. I went back and read OP, not reading all this BS
Me and my girl had our son 4.5years ago, we were ~16 when she got pregnant, she graduated, and I dropped out to work full time, abortion wasn't a option TO US.

But I don't understand how people can be against abortion though, living in a life that most would consider torture is far worse then being terminated, w/o knowledge of what's lost.

To the OP, in all honesty it's hard to respect someone who can create a child that would have been brought up by it's father and mother who would of been loving parents(right?) but decide to give it away when born.I assume you aren't living in poverty simply based off the fact that you are on a CA forum and go to private school so to me it doesn't make sense ofcourse this is just my opinion and I didn't read entire thread so who knows if you've answered anything here but eh.

answered nothing.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

well I clicked link on top 10 threads and this is what popped up. I went back and read OP, not reading all this BS

Well, if all you read was the OP's original post then you missed my posts, which is where all of the wisdom is located.

 

[luvinthebass 5,000+ posts]

i hated the rules this school had and just so happened that today i was asked to leave. handbook says that a student that is married or invovled with a pregnancy cannot attend the school. well my g/f had our baby 3 1/2 weeks ago and we gave it up for adoption to my aunt and uncle. school never knew she was pregnant didnt know anything. BUT, someone;s mom called the school friday and told them everything, and today when i got to school today i went to the office and the disciplinarian whom is also my football coach told me what was happening, only 2 people knew, my best friend on the team and a girl i was with over the summer when my ex told me she was pregnant. i know neither one of them spoke because it would have came out along time ago. this just really pissed me off, that some ***** is out there has nothing better to do than worry about other peoples business. thats my rant, just letting yall know.

You're one bad mofo //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/cool.gif.3bcaf8f141236c00f8044d07150e34f7.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

Also I hate to turn this shit into a frothy abortion debate but for ****s sakes stop babbling about "the child's life"! When most people have an abortion the "child" is less of a human being than a mother****ing cockroach. Do you have a problem with killing a cockroach? This "it starts at conception" crap is so amazingly retarded that it blows my mind that in this day and age there are actually people that are so insanely ignorant that would base their outlook on mythology and what basically amounts to magic. What magic makes inhuman cells that will be human eventually special?
It's pure religious hogwash. Humans are no different than rabbits or apes or insects in terms of "specialness", but because you selfish *****s want to think that humans are somehow above every other piece of life you attach some magical extra value to even the tiniest most insignificant seeds of human life.

Let me ask you this:

DO YOU EAT EGGS?

HOW DOES THAT ABORTED CHICKEN ***** TASTE?

too bad your mom didn't get an abortion

eating eggs is different then aborting your own children since humans are the dominate speces. we kill other speces not our own

 

[big_mofo 10+ year member]

well saywhat, all i have to say to you is that im sorry im not perfect like you are. i hope that after all this shit blows over i become perfect like you. because let the first person that doesnt **** up at anything be able to judge someone else. im so sorry i didnt handle the situation the way you would have done it, but to each his own, i made my decision and it was for the best

 

[big_mofo 10+ year member]

Also I hate to turn this shit into a frothy abortion debate but for ****s sakes stop babbling about "the child's life"! When most people have an abortion the "child" is less of a human being than a mother****ing cockroach. Do you have a problem with killing a cockroach? This "it starts at conception" crap is so amazingly retarded that it blows my mind that in this day and age there are actually people that are so insanely ignorant that would base their outlook on mythology and what basically amounts to magic. What magic makes inhuman cells that will be human eventually special?
It's pure religious hogwash. Humans are no different than rabbits or apes or insects in terms of "specialness", but because you selfish *****s want to think that humans are somehow above every other piece of life you attach some magical extra value to even the tiniest most insignificant seeds of human life.

Let me ask you this:

DO YOU EAT EGGS?

HOW DOES THAT ABORTED CHICKEN ***** TASTE?

well im glad you think your on the same level as an insect, because i know i am alot more ****ing dominant than a ****ing ant

 

[luvinthebass 5,000+ posts]

humans > insects

nuff said

 

[3onDubs 10+ year member]

humans are the dominate speces. we kill other speces not our own

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[ssj2xxgotenxx 10+ year member]

There is more to be a parent than just being genetically linked. I'm sure the kid will grow up in a loving family that is financially and emotionally capable of raising the child. Sure it's not biological, but I think of my stepfather as my father. why? it's the nature vs nurture argument. I don't think the news of being adopted is devestating if it's addressed from the start.

 

[Pistonsfan70 10+ year member]

Exactly....I think it was a good move on your part mofo. Not everyone would have the baby and put it up for adoption. Most idiots would kill it.

Saywhat lives in a sheltered world where no one makes mistakes...you can't blame him for being so critical