I'm sorry that it turned out this way. Like I said before i based what I did off of people that felt the need to message me.
I opened the dispute the same day because I called paypal customer service and he told me it's the only way to freeze the money and then we could work it out. Like i said i would end the dispute when i received it, but you said you didn't have the money to ship without it. Thank you for issuing the refund and I hope you understand where i'm coming from and I'd hate to get a bad rep after one transaction that fell thru after i've made many on here, diymobileaudio, and caraudioforums.
Best of luck with your sale and again thanks for working everything out with me.