didn't read the whole thread, butt....... 2 reasons for butseks for me- 1- up to 5times a day can make things get tiresome, or sloppy, especially if i do some crazy positions and streatch that **** and i just want to finish already....c'mon after a couple hours i can get impatient on the nut, and the other- i hate condomes, and once a month.... well, it is less mess 90% of the time, and works the same........ if i were to get a finger, well, i would just goide her to the prostate and enjoy it......... no ****....... in fact, i tried to doubble team this one chick with my buddy...... well, i could not get hard at all for the life of me if i even heard one peep,even breathing, so she got the limp noodle to fill her mouth.... so i'm completely comfortable knwing i have no deep seeded **** anywhere in me....... like this- if you hate ford so much, you never get to really drive the mustang