Crunk Times, My friend.....Crunk Times

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Being a mediator is the shyt. Honestly, it may be the best job for a lawyer in the whole wide world. Here is why:

1. Very good rate of pay.

2. You are not having to try to fill a timesheet with .3 review corrsepondence, .2 telephone call bullshit.

3. No where near the pressure of litigation. Ne deadlines to miss, etc.

4. If the case is not resolved, it's no skin off your back.

The problem:

Breaking into this area is pretty dam hard. You just about have to be a seasoned litigator, ex judge. This is complicated by the fact that you have to be experienced and yet not have a reputation for being too pro-plaintiff or defendant.

I have heard baby lawyers say they want to go into this and I have been like this://content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif, yeah I bet you would.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Any update on Reson8?

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

Any update on Reson8?

Not that I have seen.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Any update on Reson8?

nope, we need contact info. he might be in jail or something. Or maybe not staying at his house?

 

[SocMunky 10+ year member]

Ironic, I am just now checking in. Thank goodness for internet access at work!

Well, it was not pretty. We had ourselves a big *** fight, and I busted out with the 100 or so pages of screenies, chat logs and whatnot. Called her out on various statements made and whatnot. At this moment I am not really sure where it will go from here. I have two daughters to think about as well, and I don't much like the thought of putting them through a divorce. It still may end up that way, I just don't know. Definitely a shitty situation all around. I obviously have no trust in her anymore, and she is always gonna wonder if I am watching her every move. Which I most likely would be, what with the whole lack of trust thing. Honestly I don't want to be like that. It's a fundamental part of our marriage that is broken, and I do not know if it can recover or not. She did tell the other individual about getting busted. He, understandably, freaked out when he heard about the dead tree worth of stuff I had. They have since, allegedly, broken off all contact. Obviously, I'm keepin an eye on it all. I'll be happy if one day I don't have to. I don't like being the paranoid stalker type husband, it's just not how I roll. Thats really all there is to it at this point, I'm taking things day by day to see how they turn out, and honestly, I feel really sad for my kids, who undoubtedly can sense some issues are going on between their parents.

 

[SocMunky 10+ year member]

nope, we need contact info. he might be in jail or something. Or maybe not staying at his house?

Lol, no, not in jail for sure. I'm not about to do jail time for some marital bs like this! My wife mighta been getting railed by another guy, but I'll be damned if I let him cause me to have a record!

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

post the dudes # and let all of CA.com have at him

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

Ironic, I am just now checking in. Thank goodness for internet access at work!

Well, it was not pretty. We had ourselves a big *** fight, and I busted out with the 100 or so pages of screenies, chat logs and whatnot. Called her out on various statements made and whatnot. At this moment I am not really sure where it will go from here. I have two daughters to think about as well, and I don't much like the thought of putting them through a divorce. It still may end up that way, I just don't know. Definitely a shitty situation all around. I obviously have no trust in her anymore, and she is always gonna wonder if I am watching her every move. Which I most likely would be, what with the whole lack of trust thing. Honestly I don't want to be like that. It's a fundamental part of our marriage that is broken, and I do not know if it can recover or not. She did tell the other individual about getting busted. He, understandably, freaked out when he heard about the dead tree worth of stuff I had. They have since, allegedly, broken off all contact. Obviously, I'm keepin an eye on it all. I'll be happy if one day I don't have to. I don't like being the paranoid stalker type husband, it's just not how I roll. Thats really all there is to it at this point, I'm taking things day by day to see how they turn out, and honestly, I feel really sad for my kids, who undoubtedly can sense some issues are going on between their parents.

I understand the reserve, but imo, it is worse to raise them with an unhealthy marriage.

 

[SocMunky 10+ year member]

An excerpt from a chat log for those that want a little more detail.

i was very happy to see ur text

everytime my phone went off today

i was hoping it was u

y wldnt i

no

i cldnt sleep

bcse of u

more worried

i know

but still

yeah right

when is the last time u did that

[backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace][backspace]what

date is that

what changed?

and if u havent been relaxed and enjoyed life since then, y havent u

changed that?

u changed ur life for me

or altered your life for me

by meeting me 11-20

did u get the pics i sent u friday?

yes

its not trash to me

y do u say that

o

i c

cse u bought for me after the 1st time.

*it

no

no

u bought me a few different bottles of water

that one was the only 1 i saved

it felt wrong to me...u wldnt feel wierd letting ur kid drink frm a

bottle i drank frm?

so see.

nothing against u. i like ur germs

i just felt wierd knowing ur lips were on it..and then letting them drink frm it

i mean i like ur lips and germs all over me

sure

are u watching them?

what is it abt?

[backspace]if i were there..u wldnt need ****

did u like the joke abt the people in the wheel chair and meals on wheels?

it cracked me up

send me the link of the one u r watching

[01/02/2009, 00:36]. User: "reson8". Window title:"TBO.com - Tampa

Bay Online - Windows Internet Explorer"

tube8.com

for some reaon it pulls up find hot girls in brooksville1

!

guessing he is a fan of this sight 2

cse there is a whole list of girls frm dade city and brooksville on here

maybe

that is a bright yellow out fit!

yes

i have red fish nets

does it bother ur wife u watch ****

yes really

the dark hair girl is prettier..but that yellow is awful

which girl d o u like better

the yellow outift of the girl

oops

or the girl

did u notice they keep making the *** of the girl in the red blurry?

sorry i am prbly killing the mood for u

how do i fast forward?

nm

yes

r u

yes.!

r u ?

stupid 66.06 miles

yes

are you playing with ur cock?

a white shirt and panites

yes!

yes i am

yesssss..help me finish

ok

i sent u a email

i sent u another email

(yes i deleted it)

Ironically, I've not been to tube8.com.

Edit: this is only what she typed. I did not have screenshots setup locally on the pc at this point.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Ironic, I am just now checking in. Thank goodness for internet access at work!

Well, it was not pretty. We had ourselves a big *** fight, and I busted out with the 100 or so pages of screenies, chat logs and whatnot. Called her out on various statements made and whatnot. At this moment I am not really sure where it will go from here. I have two daughters to think about as well, and I don't much like the thought of putting them through a divorce. It still may end up that way, I just don't know. Definitely a shitty situation all around. I obviously have no trust in her anymore, and she is always gonna wonder if I am watching her every move. Which I most likely would be, what with the whole lack of trust thing. Honestly I don't want to be like that. It's a fundamental part of our marriage that is broken, and I do not know if it can recover or not. She did tell the other individual about getting busted. He, understandably, freaked out when he heard about the dead tree worth of stuff I had. They have since, allegedly, broken off all contact. Obviously, I'm keepin an eye on it all. I'll be happy if one day I don't have to. I don't like being the paranoid stalker type husband, it's just not how I roll. Thats really all there is to it at this point, I'm taking things day by day to see how they turn out, and honestly, I feel really sad for my kids, who undoubtedly can sense some issues are going on between their parents.

Pretty crazy man. That shit is going to eat at you. Are we eventually going to have a "ask me anything" session. Cuz while this may be a fukked up time in your life, im really curious right now.

anyway, im glad everything was aiight and that nothing to crazy happened (jail and/or muder). Sucks about the kids, but if your wife was thinking about the kids, she wouldnt have done this bullshit. If anything, she put them in this situation, not you.

Lol, no, not in jail for sure. I'm not about to do jail time for some marital bs like this! My wife mighta been getting railed by another guy, but I'll be damned if I let him cause me to have a record!

word

I understand the reserve, but imo, it is worse to raise them with an unhealthy marriage.

I would probly agree with this. It makes sense.

 

[SocMunky 10+ year member]

I understand the reserve, but imo, it is worse to raise them with an unhealthy marriage.

Yes, I can agree with that. Truthfully I am not ready to toss 10 years of marriage down the drain if I can salvage it. Thats my plan at this point at least. Some people will probably think I am crazy for it if they see some of the stuff, but I feel it's worth it. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

An excerpt from a chat log for those that want a little more detail.



Ironically, I've not been to tube8.com.

Edit: this is only what she typed. I did not have screenshots setup locally on the pc at this point.

you have a lot of self control and thinking. I guess if/when i get married i will see it your way. But after seeing something like that. Id like to think that I would be out. Especially if she showed no remorse.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Yes, I can agree with that. Truthfully I am not ready to toss 10 years of marriage down the drain if I can salvage it. Thats my plan at this point at least. Some people will probably think I am crazy for it if they see some of the stuff, but I feel it's worth it. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

how old are you? I think I never knew how old you are.

thered be waaaay too many questions running through my mind for me to deal with it. Theres no way I could carry on normally. Just wouldnt happen. In my mind, I would not be in that marriage and would be out doing what she did. I wouldnt want to fuk her anymore. ugh.