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[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

In what ways am I wrong? You all keep insulting me, telling me I'm full of bullshit, calling me wrong...but I've yet to hear a single excuse why. Or even to try and correct me. I'm open to the ideas. It's not like I'm being completely closed minded about anything I'm saying, but until I get some less than bull shit remarks, I'm right.
So Mr. Jameseypoo...what does it mean when a girl is flirting with everyone at the party?

I'm saying it's either because A) She's trying to get a certain guys attention and make him jealous to pull him closer to her -or- B) She's just a whore.

I'm thinking A and B //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

I'm thinking A and B //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

Well, most women are indeed whores...so that is most certainly an acceptable answer.

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

So Mr. Jameseypoo...what does it mean when a girl is flirting with everyone at the party?

I'm saying it's either because A) She's trying to get a certain guys attention and make him jealous to pull him closer to her -or- B) She's just a whore.

Some girls just have flirty personality types. That doesn't mean she's trying to make anyone jealous or get laid... that's just how they are. You can dissect every word they say and body gesture they make to try to jump at your own assumptions all you want, but it's all done in vein.

95% of the people I work with AND have class with are females. I'm a nursing/radiology major and also a server at a restaurant in a college town so I'm surrounded by them most of the time. Honestly, the only guy I hang out with is my roommate. Most of my friends have graduated and moved. Lots of the girls are very flirty but that doesn't mean they're wanting to shove my meat in their mouth the first chance they get, it's just their personality.

 

[Eugenics 5,000+ posts]

Some girls just have flirty personality types. That doesn't mean she's trying to make anyone jealous or get laid... that's just how they are. You can dissect every word they say and body gesture they make to try to jump at your own assumptions all you want, but it's all done in vein.
95% of the people I work with AND have class with are females. I'm a nursing/radiology major and also a server at a restaurant in a college town so I'm surrounded by them most of the time. Honestly, the only guy I hang out with is my roommate. Most of my friends have graduated and moved. Lots of the girls are very flirty but that doesn't mean they're wanting to shove my meat in their mouth the first chance they get, it's just their personality.

So you're saying flirty to an insecure man may be outgoing to an intelligent, grounded one?

Trying not to trump the opposing bias.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

Well, now we are talking about two different things. I said at a party. Not at work. Not at school. At a party, a social gathering where people meet new people and mingle.

Another discretion...When I say flirting, I mean, I know it's more than just a 'flirty personality'. Are you saying you're too stupid to be able to tell the difference between a girl who just has a naturally flirty personality and one who is actively hitting on all the guys in the room?

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

So you're saying flirty to an insecure man may be outgoing to an intelligent, grounded one?
Trying not to trump the opposing bias.

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

Well, now we are talking about two different things. I said at a party. Not at work. Not at school. At a party, a social gathering where people meet new people and mingle.
Another discretion...When I say flirting, I mean, I know it's more than just a 'flirty personality'. Are you saying you're too stupid to be able to tell the difference between a girl who just has a naturally flirty personality and one who is actively hitting on all the guys in the room?

I'm guessing you consider a girl who approaches you to talk to you "hitting on you"

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

I'm guessing you consider a girl who approaches you to talk to you "hitting on you"

Wow...if that's your standard for being hit on, you don't get out as much as you say you do.

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

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What the hell are you talking about

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

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What the hell are you talking about

If you consider a girl talking to you as getting hit on...You don't get out very much. How hard is that to understand Nurse James?

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

If you consider a girl talking to you as getting hit on...You don't get out very much. How hard is that to understand Nurse James?

When did I ever say that was my interpretation of being hit on?? I was asking if it was yours.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

When did I ever say that was my interpretation of being hit on?? I was asking if it was yours.

Well, no it's not...But I'm glad you are curious in wanting to know how to tell if a girl is interested in you //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

If she initiates the conversation with you, there is a good chance she is at least willing to entertain the thought of you and her together, so you should be all means continue on as if she does like you, but know that sometimes girls are just naturally friendly, or bored and looking for someone to talk to.

Some really good indicators that she's hitting on you is her touching you, her reinitiating conversation if you stop talking to her, giggling and laughing at your stupidest of jokes, and her trying to build comfort with you. Of course, all things should be considered, time of day, location, who she's with, etc...

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

nvm

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

If she initiates the conversation with you, there is a good chance she is at least willing to entertain the thought of you and her together

You really need to stop trying to read women.

Well, no it's not...But I'm glad you are curious in wanting to know how to tell if a girl is interested in you //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

Yes. This has always boggled my mind.

But know that sometimes girls are just naturally friendly, or bored and looking for someone to talk to.

You do realize that was my point to begin with. You're that mentioned that the girl is either trying to make someone jealous or get in your pants

Some really good indicators that she's hitting on you is her touching you, her reinitiating conversation if you stop talking to her, giggling and laughing at your stupidest of jokes, and her trying to build comfort with you. Of course, all things should be considered, time of day, location, who she's with, etc...

There really is no science to it. I'm sure you could convince the folks over at RSD otherwise, but you can't read women like you think you do. If you are the Casanova you think you are, then you should have no problems with any kind of relationships since you would pick out the perfect ones while kicking the others to the curb. It's frustrating to see someone think they know so much about something when it's very obvious they're overanalyzing something which no thought should really be put into in the first place.

 

[Jameseypoo 5,000+ posts]

And now I'm going to bed. I'm incredibly tired. I'll read and post some kind of reply in the morning.