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[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

welp, we broke up.

Sorry to hear that. I know it seems easy from my chair, but don't dwell. Pick up and find the next adventure.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

My only major break up actually changed me big time. I am much more of an *** to women now, and just give a f*ck less about a lot of times. I haven't even really looked for a relationship since then, and that was over a year ago. We basically lived together my freshman year of college. It definitely screwed me over as far as meeting new people go.

I love the single life now though.

 

[icpurplepplalot 5,000+ posts]

SO what the hell happened 2k? I mean, she said herself that she thought you two would make it, and then all of a sudden she broke up with you?

 

[icpurplepplalot 5,000+ posts]

dude I don't even know. I've been trying to make sense of it and this WHOLE THING does not make sense. It's like she just wants to break up and get over the heartache without trying. I still say she is just going through a real rough time and doesn't want to talk about it and wants to seclude herself from things and just be by herself. Like I'm looking at pictures on facebook and stuff and it's been literally 2 weeks since we were real happy and everything was fine.
I still say this isn't over.

It's very possible that it isn't over yet. My gf and I have "broken up" and taken breaks twice in the last 3 years that we have been together, and we are both happy in the relationship.

I know some people on here say to just give it up, and forget about her, which may be the right thing to do in some situations, but if you really do care about her like you say, I wouldn't give up on her just yet.

Best of luck to you though man, I've been in this type of situation before and it sucks.

 

[mokedaddy 5,000+ posts]

Just give her some space man. Dont push for anything and dont beg.

Either way there is nothing you can really do about it so try not to let it get you down.

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

You should show up at her place at 4am with a singing Mariachi band begging for her to take you back...or else you'll shoot yourself in the face.

Just my 2 cents. Take it or leave it.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

I personally handle situations like that by 'accidentally' running into her while accompanied by another girl.

 

[DBfan187 5,000+ posts]

Everything is great. No problems whatsoever.

 

[icpurplepplalot 5,000+ posts]

The new Rambo, was actually pretty cool. Surprised the hell out of me.

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

The new Rambo was 'meh' at best IMO..I was disappointed..

 

[Tiger Bass 5,000+ posts]

So my Eclipse CD2000 just died a few days ago. I snagged my friends extra Alpine CDE-9846, and jesus ***** ****ing christ, I need to get a better head unit soon.

Anyone know anything about these Pioneers? They looks pretty slick, that's for sure.

http://www.crutchfield.com/App/Product/Item/Main.aspx?g=300&i=130DEHP500&tp=5684

 

[TulsaMike 10+ year member]

Man....I really need to eat something I just can't........like I've never felt this way before. I haven't had very much to eat in 2 days, after today will be 3. I've had like 1 meal and a couple of bites of something here and there.
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eat something dammit

welp, we broke up.

sorry to hear it

Thanks everyone. It is very hard, it really is. It's not going to be easy I can tell you that because I have only had to go through this once and she is the first girl I've ever lived with. It's just so many things are new because of her.
It's ok I'll cry a lot and it'll probably take a couple of weeks but I'll eventually be ok.

such is life.

My only major break up actually changed me big time. I am much more of an *** to women now, and just give a f*ck less about a lot of times. I haven't even really looked for a relationship since then, and that was over a year ago. We basically lived together my freshman year of college. It definitely screwed me over as far as meeting new people go.
I love the single life now though.

we need to have another talk about this it seems.

yeah but I was single for a real long time before her. Like I talked to people and you know had fun //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif but It had been a LONG time since I had actually had a REAL relationship.
I'm not sure.......all I can say is it will take time. But I'm not letting go yet until I know FOR SURE that she doesn't want me at all.

thats fine, just dont let the thought of her consume you, once that happens its called stalking.

dude I don't even know. I've been trying to make sense of it and this WHOLE THING does not make sense.[.b] It's like she just wants to break up and get over the heartache without trying. I still say she is just going through a real rough time and doesn't want to talk about it and wants to seclude herself from things and just be by herself. Like I'm looking at pictures on facebook and stuff and it's been literally 2 weeks since we were real happy and everything was fine.  

I still say this isn't over.

 

there is your problem, you are trying to understand an issue with a woman from a logical standpoint. Women are emotional creatures and make decisions based on emotion rather than logic. I suggest forgetting trying to understand why it happened, and accept that it has happened and give her some space and let her decide what she wants to do.

 

I'm not giving up on her. I'm really not. Because like you said, everyone has a rough point in their relationships that puts in through the test and sometimes you just need a break. I'll find out in a few days and see what's up.  

I told her before she walked out the door, "I don't think this is over, I'll be expecting a phone call sometime soon explaining how you want to work this out."

 

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see 2 quotes above.

 

You sound like my gf. She always wants to talk it out and try to help. What she doesn't get, if she stfu...let me handle it in my mind and everything will be a lot better. I don't tell her much because a statement always leads to a question. I don't like questions...especially because they seem to be "questioning" me, my actions, motivations, etc. I don't want to be questioned and usually get very defensive about it. Is it because of insecurities...probably. But you need to learn when to let sleeping dogs lie.

 

 

sounds like you are not willing to let her in and truely get to know you with all your insecurties. Unless you let yourself be completly vunerable you will never know what it truely means to be in love. If you dont put your heart on the line you wont get hurt, but you'll always be missing something.

 

[Buck 5,000+ posts]

this is a big thread

 

[TulsaMike 10+ year member]

I won't let myself be completely vulnerable. Too much can go wrong. But you are probably right.

Trust me, I speak from experience.

 

[TulsaMike 10+ year member]

I need a 19" LCD TV for my bedroom. I prefer used and cheap. It doesn't even have to be HD since have an antenna.

http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?from=R40&_trksid=m37&satitle=19%22+lcd&category0=