since you have already invested 7 months into it that changes some things. first off, what is the major issue you guys seem to be having? I have never seen things get better by moving away from each other. My wife tried to pull that shit when we were dating, i told her if she wants to go then go, I'm not gonna make her stay if she's not happy. She moved in with me about a week after moving out here to oklahoma from cali. We are now going on 4 yrs together and 3 months married. Life is hard at times, but we've made the decision that no matter what we will work it out together. You are both old enough to have experienced a little bit of the real world. I'm with daman on this one tho, if she's not willing to stick it out with you when things are tough, who's to say she will when life is hard(like being 4 mo behind on rent and having all your utilities about to be shut off, no groceries in the fridge, and only making 8.00/hr just to give you perspective on some of the things we've been through) or hell, even when things are easy. It would have been easy to just split and call it over. What you have to decide is a very simple thing. Is she worth the time. Thats only something you can answer. Is she someone that you honestly think you could spend the rest of your life with. think about that question long and hard. If she's not, in my opinion, Its not worth it. But again, its an easy question, very hard to answer.we've been together for 7 months. We've only lived together for 3 months. we are currently living together but that might change soon. Well, I'm not so sure if it's on the verge of being "over," but it's on the verge of being crippled really badly, if it isn't already. The talk last night was much better then the night before. I'd say it's just a real real bad rough patch. I'm going to be 22 in November, she's 20.
Yep, I think she wanted me to post it in CT. She misses you guys.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif lawl you have renee's cell number, ewwwww
Would you believe that someone sent that to me and I have no idea who?how'd you get renee's number?
Pretty much. We can ask for advice and try that advice, but we all must figure out what works best for us.I think I see what you are saying. So....thank you. I think you are saying, "in my situations no that wouldn't work but everyone has their own way of handling things."