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[icpurplepplalot 5,000+ posts]

Well the balls in her court, I'm willing to work it out whatever way she chooses. and I agree with the last thing you said. I mean, what do you think people do who move in together once they get married //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif ? They can't just run away they have to work it out there. But whatever she chooses I'll do just to save this relationship.

Exactly, you two will just have to figure out what the best course of action would be, for the both of you.

Me and my gf will be moving in together next year, I hope everything works out for us, but by then I will have been with her for 4 years.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

forgot all about this picture.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

 

[mokedaddy 5,000+ posts]

you gonna get iodine poisoning.

Thats the gang of shrimp. I thought only chad butler could eat that many.

Happy late b-day dev. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[TulsaMike 10+ year member]

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I guess //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif

Well the balls in her court, I'm willing to work it out whatever way she chooses. and I agree with the last thing you said. I mean, what do you think people do who move in together once they get married //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/confused.gif.e820e0216602db4765798ac39d28caa9.gif ? They can't just run away they have to work it out there. But whatever she chooses I'll do just to save this relationship.

//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/word.gif.64b12e39f936af3b4fff38a1c0bd0244.gif thanks man. I know you joke around but you care I know you do //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif.

communicating is the most important thing you two can learn to do. You both should sit down and try to find a way you guys can communicate what ever it is you are feelling in a non threatening or judgmental way. That way neither of you will get defensive or offended by what the other is saying. living together or not, it wont really matter if you guys can communicate.

 

[mokedaddy 5,000+ posts]

Women are strange creatures, man. To me they rarely make any sense, but it does seem she wants to try and work it out. All you can do is worry about what you have control of and hope its good enough. Good luck though, it sounds like you really care for her.

 

[TulsaMike 10+ year member]

so im still confused about your situation. you guys have been together how long? and you are or are not living together? your relationship is on the verge of being over? or just some rough patches? and how old are you 2?

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

you gonna get iodine poisoning.

thanks

I am eating them over a period of a few days. I'm not eating all 4 lbs in one sitting mayne.
Toxicity

Acute iodine poisoning is rare and usually occurs only with doses of many grams. Symptoms of acute iodine poisoning include burning of the mouth, throat, and stomach, fever, nausea, vomiting, diarrhoea, a weak pulse, and coma.

It is rare for diets of natural foods to supply more than 2,000 µg of iodine/day, and most diets supply less than 1,000 µg/day. People living in the northern coastal regions of Japan, whose diets contain large amounts of seaweed, have been found to have iodine intakes ranging from 50,000 to 80,000 µg (50-80 mg) of iodine/day without noticeable site effects.

well the truth came out as to whats really bothering my g/f. Said we are moving to fast. Which I fully agree with. Said she's the one who pushed for moving in, and bringing up marriage. So she has some decisions to make. I thought I was going to throw up yesterday from how I felt. I actually did sneeze up blood that was fun //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif :laugh:

Oh well, we can either try and work it out by living together or by moving back to where we were before. Either way doesn't matter to me as long as we are still in a relationship. I really do love her //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

and deman, I don't want to hear anything about moving in to see if it works or not because not everything was right to begin with for us to move in together //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/tongue.gif.6130eb82179565f6db8d26d6001dcd24.gif

I still stand by the mantra. I moved in with other women before my wife and when shit went sour, I bounced without looking back. I believe this is a sign it will never work. I fully believe the "live with" is the test. Always will. In the end it is your life though and only you can know. You asked for advice, I gave mine. It's your job to weigh in whether or not the advice is good for you.

 

[IamDeMan 5,000+ posts]

Yes i did ask for the advice and yes I did appreciate it. However, surely there are variations in situations. Such as, it'd probably go a lot better if we had been together longer, if I had a much better job(and a degree). I mean surely what you say is true I'm just saying that the chances of it actually working would be better if those two things were better. You know?

In my mindset, no. However, what works for one person isn't always going to work for the next //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif What I say isn't "true" it is just what I would do and what has worked for me.

In my mind, if the other person can't understand the current situation and rationally approach it with me, then they won't in the future when other hurdles pop up. life constantly has hurdles.

I can in no way say this will work for you or anyone else at all. We are all different and in the end must make our own way. I only offer my take and what I would do. What I would do is bounce. I get over shit quickly though if I think it won't work out. I have no problems looking for something better.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

In other news:
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Now that 2k's crisis is over, can we get back to the forum business of pwnage?

For example, the number of above needz to be called.