Crunk Times, My friend.....Crunk Times

[Verlander]

I think you need to find you own place

 

[Verlander]

I don't make enough money to do that. I make enough to live here, pay for gas, and food and small items for myself but if I had my own place I would most likely have to live in an apt and that isn't happening.

What's wrong with an apartment? When I move to Detroit I'll be getting an apartment.

 

[Verlander]

and actually besides the not cleaning. He's actually the best room mate I've ever had. He always has rent, he's very rarely here. He doesn't party, he doesn't smoke, he doesn't do drugs. He's actually a very good room mate it's just he sucks when it comes to cleaning.

Then I'd just clean for him. Compromise. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[luvinthebass 5,000+ posts]

I hate places where you can hear people around you. You yourself cannot be loud or anything. Those are the main points. I guess it would be big enough if it was just me. But I have a decent home audio setup and I couldn't have it on if I lived in an apt.

what if the walls aren't thin then it's a possibility to play music at a decent volume and not cause any commotion

 

[Verlander]

I hate places where you can hear people around you. You yourself cannot be loud or anything. Those are the main points. I guess it would be big enough if it was just me. But I have a decent home audio setup and I couldn't have it on if I lived in an apt.

Yea I'm not loud. I also never host parties so this is not a problem. What was nice in Florida, we were all in our 20's and nobody cared about noise.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

and actually besides the not cleaning. He's actually the best room mate I've ever had. He always has rent, he's very rarely here. He doesn't party, he doesn't smoke, he doesn't do drugs. He's actually a very good room mate it's just he sucks when it comes to cleaning.

Just try having a real calm conversation with him, and start off giving him some props with all that stuff. Then just ask him if he will start making an effort to do some each day just so it will not get so bad. If he starts to get pissed, just walk off and say, "I didn't mean to make you mad. Just think about it some" Just because it is confrontational does not mean it has to be adversarial.

Be cool like fonzie.

 

[luvinthebass 5,000+ posts]

Yea I'm not loud. I also never host parties so this is not a problem. What was nice in Florida, we were all in our 20's and nobody cared about noise.

was your place full of young people and not old people that coudl be the reason why:laugh:

 

[Verlander]

was your place full of young people and not old people that coudl be the reason why:laugh:

It was 5000 college students. Good times.

 

[Verlander]

Just try having a real calm conversation with him, and start off giving him some props with all that stuff. Then just ask him if he will start making an effort to do some each day just so it will not get so bad. If he starts to get pissed, just walk off and say, "I didn't mean to make you mad. Just think about it some" Just because it is confrontational does not mean it has to be adversarial.
Be cool like fonzie.

LOL Fonzie //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

 

[luvinthebass 5,000+ posts]

hmm I like this advice. That's not a bad idea at all. Yeah I don't want to make him mad I just want him to understand how I feel and what he's putting me through. I don't think he'll get mad though, he and I are both pretty passive.

He'll just accept what he has to do and realize that he makes a mess and SHOULD clean up what he makes a mess of and then he'll realize that you don't like it when he doesn't clean up so talkin works.

 

[Verlander]

What you could do is have *** with his GF, sister, cousin etc. and bust on her face and take a pic and say "Here since I have to clean your mess, you can clean my mess"

 

[luvinthebass 5,000+ posts]

lawlerskatez

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

LOL Fonzie //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif

He's the man.

hmm I like this advice. That's not a bad idea at all. Yeah I don't want to make him mad I just want him to understand how I feel and what he's putting me through. I don't think he'll get mad though, he and I are both pretty passive.

The key to these things is not to let it build up so that the conversation is destined to be an argument. Talk to him when you are relaxed and don't get offended if he brings up something about you that pisses him off. In fact, expect it. It is human nature to be defensive and I can assure you that there are things that you do that irritates him.

 

[Verlander]

He's the man.


The key to these things is not to let it build up so that the conversation is destined to be an argument. Talk to him when you are relaxed and don't get offended if he brings up something about you that pisses him off. In fact, expect it. It is human nature to be defensive and I can assure you that there are things that you do that irritates him.

Busting a nut on his GF or sisters face could be one of the things that pisses him off //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Busting a nut on his GF or sisters face could be one of the things that pisses him off //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

Indeed.