CRAZY female situation...advice needed!

[Rodeo91 10+ year member]

Ok well I have finally found a girl that I like, and she feels the same way back. But there is one HUGE problem....

She is my friends SISTER.

I am in a really weird situation here. I have tried talking to my friend about her and I merely hanging out as friends, and he doesn't even like that. He keeps saying stuff like "it doesn't work like that", blah blah. No matter how many reasons I give him he won't change his mind. I haven't even gone into detail about something more maybe coming of it.

He thinks just because me and him are friends, that I can't hang out with her. I have tried to explain saying "would you rahter have her hanging out with someone you know and trust (me), or some jackass kid that will screw her over in the end. He still says the same thing.

The weird part is there are no parents on their side. My friend has his apartment with him, her, and their older brother (~23). He says the only time I can see her is when I am over there hanging out with him, and when he goes to bed I have to leave.

As far as I am concerned it isn't over. I still want to see her even if he gets mad.

Blah, what would you guys do in a situation like this?? Sorry for the long post just had to vent! //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/furious.gif.fc81ca146dbff91fede3ed290dbc4f4c.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crazy.gif.c13912c32de98515d3142759a824dae7.gif

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[xpl0it 10+ year member]

How old are you, how old is your friend, how old is the girl?

 

[Rodeo91 10+ year member]

We are both 19 and she is 17 I believe.

 

[PESteele 10+ year member]

friend sisters make good ****s then you can make fun of him for having a ****y sister

 

[dkmesa 10+ year member]

We are both 19 and she is 17 I believe.

Don't **** her...thats my advice

 

[azbass 5,000+ posts]

bros before hoes.

just sneek her out and bang her.. on the side.

 

[Worlddre 5,000+ posts]

fuck him let her choose if he gets pissed let him be pissed

 

[Rodeo91 10+ year member]

bros before hoes.
just sneek her out and bang her.. on the side.

Meh, see I am not like that. It could be done though.

 

[Rodeo91 10+ year member]

fuck him let her choose if he gets pissed let him be pissed

This is what I am thinking

 

[xpl0it 10+ year member]

I dunno man, that age difference is a tough one. I think you should keep your friend in the long run, friends will always be there for you, ex-girlfriends will not.

 

[937DYTBOI 5,000+ posts]

man thats a tuff one i was in the same situation with my friend liking my cousin who is like a sister to me, i hated it bwecause it seemed like he was over my house for her rather than me, i dont blame him but we was friends first and my cousin will conflict with the relationship we already have, and knowing the type of person he is i wouldnt let that one fly to quick myself.

 

[Worlddre 5,000+ posts]

This is what I am thinking

for real tho i cant see why i would not let my sister see a close friend of mine

 

[netherland24 5,000+ posts]

err... **** ***** ****....

why are u posting this on a CARAUDIO website?????

and YES BROS BEFORE HOES.....

 

[Rodeo91 10+ year member]

I dunno man, that age difference is a tough one. I think you should keep your friend in the long run, friends will always be there for you, ex-girlfriends will not.

Yea but see I havn't even gone that far yet. I have only asked about me and her hanging out as friends and he doesn't even like that. She doesn't know anyone here and is trapped in the apartment all day.

 

[Rodeo91 10+ year member]

for real tho i cant see why i would not let my sister see a close friend of mine

Exactly, me neither!