blue ballin

I can't nobody has said this yet....

Why don't you just tell her the truth straight out? Instead of conversing with us and asking what to do, why not tell HER your situation. If you really want a relationship to work, you need to communicate. Just don't go jumping in saying things or sound like you are pissed off. Open her up to the situation first and bring it to her lightly and see where she is coming from. Find out if there is anything that you can do differently and finally what the both of you can do together to work the situation out.

It's really simple, it's not as difficult as you may think it is.

 
alright get this, i tried the simple way of doing things and explained to her wtf she was causing me right after it just happened, she said oh it's ok all you had to do was say you wanted to have ***... "it doesn't just have to be when i want it", so she said get back in bed i'll have *** im just a little tired. im like ok cool now i don't have to go jog for half an hour at 4 am and then madsterbate to get you off my mind so i can sleep. that part i didn't say out loud of course... anyway we start getting it on and then boom she's like sorry honey im too tired and goes to sleep. now im thinking holy shit looks like this idea wasn't as simple as i was informed and now im off to jog til sunrise so i can just pass the **** out from exhaustion cause im so frustrated i can't even get little timmy up to play to relieve myself.

 
so she made you stop after you started? you gotta be a pretty passive guy to let something like that happen... i mean, my gf could be a sleep for all i care, i can still get in there and finish my business...

i don't see how your gf could get wet enough for you to even get in there and then just quit like that...

 
Maybe you need to man up and do something to keep her interested. If you're no more active than the massive black ***** in her dresser, she's going to keep passing out whenever she **** well pleases. Spice up the game a little, get her blood pumping. Natural fatigue will go away once her adrenaline glands kick in. This is her way of telling you that you don't excite her, that you are nothing more than a hard dick that buys her dinner and movie tickets.

 
Maybe you need to man up and do something to keep her interested. If you're no more active than the massive black ***** in her dresser, she's going to keep passing out whenever she **** well pleases. Spice up the game a little, get her blood pumping. Natural fatigue will go away once her adrenaline glands kick in. This is her way of telling you that you don't excite her, that you are nothing more than a hard dick that buys her dinner and movie tickets.
The main thing is that she says it doesn't just have to be when she wants it but considering that i want it everyday it just makes sense to only have it when she wants it so that both of us want it, it would feel akward otherwise for me banging away with someone who i know isn't wanting to be doing it lol. Your post did cross my mind, but on the days that *** does happen she has many comings so to say lol. im not saying im the bomb just that it's not boring. although it was 4 am, we are on a somewhat weird sleeping schedule at the moment but it would be equal to midnight for the average sleeping pattern so to say and she likes her sleep. As for the spicing it up i must agree, it does seem to even bore me at times but it still seems satisifing. from a previous post that the 4-6 times will turn into 4-6 times monthly, would this spicing it up keep that from ever happening? or is there a limit to how much spicing one can do? i mean i don't want to spend endless hours reading up new shit every night to try in the bedroom to keep the spice alive but i don't prefer to keep our current schedule either. and i did try waiting til she wanted the **** and then going to sleep but im a guy and i failed miserably at that attempt and could not fall asleep lol, well i got close but she kept mounting me and saying aww your tired? shit it even managed to go as far as to we were making popcorn one night and as we were waiting on the microwave she sticks my dick in her mouth and gets me hard just messing around, next thing you know popcorns eaten and my dicks going limp as she's passed out. **** is this the thinking that occurs in the mind of someone who ends up cheating or what?

wow maybe this needs some cliffnotes

-when both of us are in mood *** isn't boring

-when just me in mood can't have ***

-even though she says it doesn't have to be just when she's in mood

-extra spice?

-still blue ballin

-pondering if this is how affairs originate although i'd never do that

 
You've only been together a month? Sounds to me like she snagged you with the poon, and now she's trying to ween you off it to make sure you don't just want her for ***...

Or she's selfish. Or both...Go down on her, when she's almost there, say "Mah Tung Huhtz, goodnight"

Is she going to the Jim (sic) on your days off? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/laugh.gif.48439b2acf2cfca21620f01e7f77d1e4.gif j/p

Jay

 
I have a few different things to say, the first is as someone else mentioned, spicing it up. You wanna stay hard? Use a **** ring. An even better one than the normal ones is "The Screaming O". It has watch batteries so it's not one time use like the other ones. It has some little gel like bristles that rub against the clit and vibrates. It's used as a **** ring, but can also please the female. Make sure it is a lubed up a little so that it does please the woman.

There are various other *** toys you can use as well. Try lubricants that warm up when you blow on them. Try role playing and rather than taking off the outfits, keep them on to keep the mood going. There's also different types of furniture made specifically for ***, try getting one of those, the one that's coming to mind right now is the wedge style one.

Rather than just going for *** and stickin your **** in her, give her some oral, or while stickin your **** in her, rub her clit, breasts, kiss her, kiss her neck, etc.

Now here's my other thought. What is she doing the days you want to have *** and she doesn't? You say that she says she is tired, but is her wor/school/whatever schedule the same as other days you have ***. If so, it might be possible there may be another person involved and she is having *** with them and thus too tired to have it with you, because she already has. And the reason why she is able to *** many times with you, well besides being that is females and it is natural for them to have multiple orgasms, even within a very short amount of time, is that she hashn't gotten *** yet. I'm not saying that she is having *** with someone else for sure, but it CAN be a possibility, but hopefully it's not true.

 
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