What if he just did it, like he didn't think he was doing anything wrong. Are you more mad at the action or the hiding. I would be more mad at the hiding.
update: he called me about 8 times in a row, and i kept hitting 'end' on my phone, then he left me a voicemail saying rougly...
"hey, you have 24 hours to get all your shit out of my house or i'm throwing it away, so if you want anything you better come and get it"
like
I was the one doing something wrong or something. so I call him back and i'm like "well last night i came and got anything that I would be pissed about if you threw it away, so if you can't give me an hour alone in the house to get all my stuff, then i don't give a **** and you can throw it away. but if you CAN grow up for about 10 minutes and give me some alone time in the house then i'll come get it"
Him: not going to happen, i don't trust you in the house alone
me: hahaha why don't you trust me in the house, what did I ever do to you to make you not trust me
him: i don't know you might **** shit up or something
me: well i could've last night when i was there by myself but I didn't
so then it goes on with him being like "
I don't understand why you're doing this" and i'm like "me? you're the one being a piece of shit" and then he's just like
"well i don't know what you think is going on but i'm not doing anything" so i say "no, you're hanging out with my ex girlfriend, that's bad enough, don't you think that the LEAST you could've done was just ran it by me first? at the least?" then he's like "i knew you wouldn't approve" so i say "well then that's how you know you're doing something wrong" and he says "wrong in whose eyes? not mine" so then i was like "i'm not playing these stupid games, can i have time alone or not?" then he said no, so i was like "ok then it was nice being your friend and i'll drop the key off in the mailbox" then hung up.
then he called back like 10 minutes later being like "i don't want it to end like this" and i'm like "well too bad, you ****ed up i don't care, i'll come drop the key off and get my other car out of your backyard as soon as I can get someone to come jump it with me" then hung up.