Abortion?

[Vicodin113 10+ year member]

i hope this makes you feel a little better

Amazing. Thanks? lol??

 

[Pistonsfan70 10+ year member]

Haven't read the pages in between but if you do have the kid... DON'T BE A DICK FATHER!! I get pissed when guys don't pay child support, don't see their kids...etc.

I am against abortion but I can't say I wouldn't consider it if I was in your shoes... Good luck man

 

[Pistonsfan70 10+ year member]

and btw. my stance on abortion is that it's a bad idea. you shouldn't have been fuckin if you weren't ready to have a kid.
sorry to be so blunt.

I agree with you... I waited until I almost turned 21 to have *** and that was while having relationships with 3 different chicks of one year, 6 months..and I was with my current gf for two year BEFORE we did it. I am not saying being 21 is mature enough to be a father but at that age, I was more mature, made somewhat decent money, and am almost done with school.

That being said, NO ONE really waits until they are pulling down 6 figures to have a kid but a good father doesn't need a big check...just be there for your kid!

 

[Vicodin113 10+ year member]

I agree with you... I waited until I almost turned 21 to have *** and that was while having relationships with 3 different chicks of one year, 6 months..and I was with my current gf for two year BEFORE we did it. I am not saying being 21 is mature enough to be a father but at that age, I was more mature, made somewhat decent money, and am almost done with school.

That being said, NO ONE really waits until they are pulling down 6 figures to have a kid but a good father doesn't need a big check...just be there for your kid!

I waited a long time to have *** for the fear of getting one preg.

But I mean its just so weird the times we werent safe we dont get preg. When we are safe is when it happens. Idk. We have like 2 weeks to decided. If I find a new job that is 4-5 dollars more an hour we will keep it.

If we dont in those 2 weeks we wont. I dont want to be a father and have my child grow up with nothing and be poor I dont want to have him suffer.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

why wait? make the right choice and get rid of that shit.

 

[btnhfan 5,000+ posts]

Personally, Im 100% pro choice.

I havent been in this situation myself, so Im not speaking from experience or anything.

But what I would do before making a decision about anything is:

What kind of job do you have/or going to school?

Do you love this girl/she love you?

What does she think about it?

Talk to your parents and see what they think, they (should) love you, they will help.

What do your girlfriends parents think?

I would think about what kind of life I would bring my child into.

Good luck man.

Let us know whatsup.

 

[Vicodin113 10+ year member]

**** I just cant think. I dont want to do this I feel bad, but yet I dont want to not be able to provied for him/her. And also I was taking some drugs (vicodin) pretty hardcore around the time she conceved and also I was drunk that night also... does that matter.

 

[Vicodin113 10+ year member]

Personally, Im 100% pro choice.
I havent been in this situation myself, so Im not speaking from experience or anything.

But what I would do before making a decision about anything is:

What kind of job do you have/or going to school? I work as a network Tech/Deskside Tech for NYCT (New York City Transit). Basicly PC work to sum it all up

Do you love this girl/she love you? Yes 100%

What does she think about it? She wants it but knows right now its not a good Idea

Talk to your parents and see what they think, they (should) love you, they will help. My parents said to go for it also and do it at a better time

What do your girlfriends parents think? Her parents hate me (only enemies I have in this world.) because she left home at the age of 18 (which they felt was to young) and blame it all on me

I would think about what kind of life I would bring my child into.

Good luck man.

Let us know whatsup.

Thanks for the support man.

 

[Slammed 5,000+ posts]

i hope this makes you feel a little better

it kinda makes you forget about this cruel world we live in

 

[Vicodin113 10+ year member]

eh man, calm down. Let it settle a few days. Talk to some people. You'll be able to make the right choice after you've chewed on it a bit.,

I dont want to chew on it, I either want it or dont. No chewing on childern.

 

[supraman1379 10+ year member]

I dont want to chew on it, I either want it or dont. No chewing on childern.

Hes right though. You need to actually sit and think about it. Even if you have the baby. You can always put him/her up for adoption.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

it kinda makes you forget about this cruel world we live in

it sure does my friend.. it sure does.

 

[Vicodin113 10+ year member]

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[Vicodin113 10+ year member]

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[marcusb419er]

i had a kid at a young age i hated her at 1st not going to lie but now i wouldn't change it for the world. + when she/he becomes 18 u'll still be kinda young.