Abortion?

[StealthKill 10+ year member]

Whatever you choose to do hope it works out for the best man.

 

[jaycross 10+ year member]

this is gunna be a HUGE thread....

 

[Savstyle 10+ year member]

i'm gonna stick my neck out and say no.
if you're not ready to be a parent, and she's not ready to be a parent, then i don't think it should be too difficult a decision.

morals

don't have kids you can't/ aren't willing to take care of.

i disagree, theres adoption, because theres alotta couple out there who catn concieve(sp?) children, But first of all have her goto a doctor and find out for sure. But either way you keep the youngen or put he/she up for adoption. But having an abortion can cause alot of problems than its worth. Whatever you decide to do jus dont be forceful will her if you her to have an abortion and she doesnt, becuase that will cause and insane amount of problems..

Also you might be able to get lucky find some foster parents who nice enough to keep in the childs life. Instead of having the baby and allways wondering how he/she is, or the what if we had him/her thing.

 

[sixfootman2005 10+ year member]

Though I would wait to freak out until a doctor confirms it. She's still pretty early...I believe most tests need you to be closer to/over 4 weeks to really be accurate. Or...maybe her conception date isn't what you predicted //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

from what i've heard....a chick can still have 1 or more periods after getting pregnant:fyi:

i'd have to suggest adoption if you REALY don't want the kid....otherwise do your best and you won't regret it

 

[noob with an RS 10+ year member]

i had to get an abortion with my ex and i regret it. she wanted to do it because she was a //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/chicken.gif.218ea7401db50d5e31a7e0b37e05e21e.gif and didnt want her parents to find out i was sticking it to her. at the time, i let her decide what we would do but after the abortion, a tremendous amount of guilt was hoisted onto my shoulders and i felt horrible for letting them take my first seed. it is one of the biggest impacts in my life and i pray to god everyday for forgiveness. she took it harder than i did because shes supposedly a strong christian and she'd bawl everytime i brought it up so i think she supresses the fact that we went through it. it costs about 400 dollars to have it done and they are going to stretch her vaginal region out pretty far with some clamps and its not going to be comfortable for her. man up and take care of your seed, man. but then again, who am i to tell you that //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/frown.gif.a3531fa0534503350665a1e957861287.gif

2pac - letter 2 my unborn

 

[.::DuD3::. 10+ year member]

yeah definately before you do anything else, go to the doctor and get a 100% without doubt assurance. no sense in making a big fuss out of it if it turns out to be nothing.

 

[zachzchw 5,000+ posts]

Take care of your child. You managed to get her pregnant, manage to take care of the life you created.

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

lol I had this issue last month and posted it on here and there was 10 pages of debate.

Yeah I remember. Half the members of this forum were still debating what you should do and you were already back from your trip to the clinic.

 

[steveyblack 10+ year member]

ehh, if your going to abort, do it while its still early devoloping stage like 1-2 month...but its all up to you...did you tell your/her fam to see what they think??

 

[WhoSayWho? 5,000+ posts]

Any idea how she managed to get herself pregnant?

 

[saywhat? 5,000+ posts]

In my opinion, abortion is murder. I understand your worried your not going to be able to support a kid. hell i was in that situation 3.5 yrs ago. and its the best thing that ever happened to me. Trust me you'll regret it later.

shutup. lol everything thats "wrong" to people without an open mind you 100% backing it.

im tired of you honestly.

Do what you feel is best for YOU AND YOUR GIRL.

 

[faulkton 5,000+ posts]

punch her in the tummy and save the $400.. buy a new deck or something.

 

[steveyblack 10+ year member]

reach and grab

 

[Beat_Dominator 5,000+ posts]

I was done but I have one more thing to say now. You people that keep trying to act like "you're not a man if you don't have a kid" need to take a look at how lame that sounds in a situation like this.

The option is out there, and only this couple knows what THEY need. Don't try to chastise the guy if he decides an abortion is the right choice for him.

I'd think that ruining his life, his gf's life, and bringing a child into the world to a shitty life could make him want to kill himself. There are no garantees that the Govt. will save the day here. Just as there's no garantee that you wouldn't regret an abortion for the rest of your days.

 

[thatkidbob 10+ year member]

punch her in the tummy and save the $400.. buy a new deck or something.

is it a two story house? //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/naughty.gif.94359f346c0f1259df8038d60b41863e.gif

j/k