What annoys the ***** outta you/pisses you off...

My brother has been dead for just over two years. I moved and put in a change of address. Capital One, who had my brothers auto loan, keeps sending people (for the past two years) to repo the car. I have told, I don't know how many, people that the car was left in Ga. That I have no clue to where it is as I moved literally days after my brother passed. Capital One is making it beyond a chore to let them know directly all the information I have. They want either an account number or SS#, neither of which I have or they just hang up the call. Doesn't stop them harassing me though.
 
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My brother has been dead for just over two years. I moved and put in a change of address. Capital One, who had my brothers auto loan, keeps sending people (for the past two years) to repo the car. I have told, I don't know how many, people that the car was left in Ga. That I have no clue to where it is as I moved literally days after my brother passed. Capital One is making it beyond a chore to let them know directly all the information I have. They want either an account number or SS#, neither of which I have or they just hang up the call. Doesn't stop them harassing me though.
My dad passed about 10 years ago now...I still get the random call or letter from collections for him
 
Constant doctor visits and then this this morning from my MRI results :(

MRI Results are in for my lower back and let's just say they are not good at all. Cracked vertebrae in a couple spots, more disc bulging and the most concerning part of it to me is that there is a stable sclerotic lesion on the bone marrow. I'm sure I am looking at surgery ASAP now with these results instead of being able to wait till April like I planned on.

Also means I will be going in for a biopsy for the lesion to determine if it is benign or cancerous. Just gotta wait on doctor to call and figure everything out.

I knew going in that lesion was there, idk how but I just knew.
 
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Constant doctor visits and then this this morning from my MRI results :(

MRI Results are in for my lower back and let's just say they are not good at all. Cracked vertebrae in a couple spots, more disc bulging and the most concerning part of it to me is that there is a stable sclerotic lesion on the bone marrow. I'm sure I am looking at surgery ASAP now with these results instead of being able to wait till April like I planned on.

Also means I will be going in for a biopsy for the lesion to determine if it is benign or cancerous. Just gotta wait on doctor to call and figure everything out.

I knew going in that lesion was there, idk how but I just knew.
Pisses me off, I supposedly have the symptoms of Lyme disease, severe genetic or autoimmune disease, but they can't figure it out and I don't have enough matching symptoms with any one disease to actually be diagnosed and treated. I have to go to war with the god damn commie gov insurance companies that have f*cking wrecked health care just to have a bunch of garbage big pharma drugs thrown at me that don't cure shit. What they've done to health insurance in this country has wrecked the way like all forms of medicine work, as well as the artificial compartmentalization of medical practices. You add the UN taking over our healthcare via the WHO, people like me are DP'd by this system. Going to the doctor nowadays is basically like doing a deal with the devil, unless you're very lucky. Doctors are just parrots for the pharmaceutical industry, mostly, and insurance doesn't pay for anything else, and the most basic insurance costs an arm and leg to not pay for shit, just to have even more of my money stolen by the gov for them to use it for themselves and illegals.
 
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Yeah it sucks for people like us. One thing I can say is I do have great doctors near me & Mayo Clinic is 300 miles west of me so that isn't a bad trip albeit a definite overnight visit usually around 3-5 days. Finally found a hotel that is cheap enough that they have a huge pool and hot tub for around 75 bucks a night and still close to the hospital that the shuttle comes and picks you up. Plus a great restaurant across the street then the normal stuff on down the road.

I'm irked over the fact that no insurance company pays for back epidurals anymore. Now it is just Valium that they give you and lemme tell you what...Back Epidurals are effing painful! Had it done again this morning and I just hate the way valium makes me feel to begin with. Just now starting to come out of the brain fog that stuff gives me and it was 10 am when I took the last 5mg of it. 5mg before I left the house then that 5mg when I got to the hospital.

For people like us with syndromes that no one studies, no one can figure out it is hard on us not only trying to explain everything but trying to find any kind of relief.

People don't realize a day or two without any major issues is a major milestone. After now 125 surgeries I would love to just have a month hell a week where I didn't have a ton of pain and could actually think, walk & move around like a normal human. These kind of medical issues takes its toll on you to the point some days you can't even think straight enough to do anything.
 
Yeah it sucks for people like us. One thing I can say is I do have great doctors near me & Mayo Clinic is 300 miles west of me so that isn't a bad trip albeit a definite overnight visit usually around 3-5 days. Finally found a hotel that is cheap enough that they have a huge pool and hot tub for around 75 bucks a night and still close to the hospital that the shuttle comes and picks you up. Plus a great restaurant across the street then the normal stuff on down the road.

I'm irked over the fact that no insurance company pays for back epidurals anymore. Now it is just Valium that they give you and lemme tell you what...Back Epidurals are effing painful! Had it done again this morning and I just hate the way valium makes me feel to begin with. Just now starting to come out of the brain fog that stuff gives me and it was 10 am when I took the last 5mg of it. 5mg before I left the house then that 5mg when I got to the hospital.

For people like us with syndromes that no one studies, no one can figure out it is hard on us not only trying to explain everything but trying to find any kind of relief.

People don't realize a day or two without any major issues is a major milestone. After now 125 surgeries I would love to just have a month hell a week where I didn't have a ton of pain and could actually think, walk & move around like a normal human. These kind of medical issues takes its toll on you to the point some days you can't even think straight enough to do anything.
Dude I can't get out of bed without a major issue lol. My hands have been trying to rot for 7 months straight, because my connective tissues stop proper blood flow through my body, where the furthest parts away from your heart get it the worst. I've got blood stains in several places on my sheets and pillows and comforter from my hands cracking open and bleeding from swelling and dryness and what not. That's like 1/100th of my problems. My connective tissues are so tight it pulls on my eyeballs and sinuses and teeth all the time, pinches nerves in my face and head and jaw, and happens even worse when I move my head the wrong way, so I'll have connective tissues pop literally inside of my head like you'd pop your knuckle or something.

The tightness even closes my throat and sinus cavities sometimes, and I've had close incidents where I thought I was gonna to suffocate like an asthma attack. I keep a thick straw nearby in case it happens suddenly. Doctors say they have no f*cking clue what's going on and want me to spend idk how much like at least $10,000 out of pocket while having to also pay for health insurance on top of that and go to like 7 other doctors who don't work together and are so narrow focused that there's no point to going, and I can barely get out of bed. It's a literal nightmare, but you already know what this type of life is like. The tightness happens on the other end too, but that's too much to talk about lol, it's awful. I'm not going anywhere where I have to stay there so they can Holocaust me when the next pandemic comes with their fake virus responses like putting people on ventilators, so idk. That's life, we do all die, so I deal with it. Sometimes I feel like I'm secretly already dead, but somehow I'm still managing to animate this mummy corpse of mine 😂

But yeah, I can't think straight without being completely still and nearly asleep because of the nerve pain levels. I cannot walk and chew bubblegum at the same time, absolutely not.
 
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People who think they can drive because they can start their vehicles.

#1. The blue light on the dash means your high beams are on and you are blinding people.
#2. Slow down for the corner. It is not ok to cross the double yellow into my lane!
#3. Safe following distance does not mean "safely tucked in on his tail".
#4. The blue hour. This is when human vision is the poorest. 1 hour before sunrise and one hour after sunset.
#5. Lights are to be turned on 30min before sunset and on for 30min after sunrise!!! Did no one teach you people!!
#6. If your wipers are on then you need to turn your lights on!
#7. High beams in the snow REDUCES your forward visibility. Likewise for rain.... and fog.
 
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