to the original post, i say this:
first, i think that mixing races is a shady area. cultures are completely different which almost always leads to issues within families, etc. i say blacks should be with blacks, whites with whites. that doesn't make me racist. racism is pure hatred for a race without a reason.
Racism - a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human races determine cultural or individual achievement
People should be able to do as they please. You believe in this further down in your trite rant, but you don't here...for some reason. Human is human, in my books.
BUT, i do believe that love is colorblind, but honestly lets be real here. a LOT of overweight, low-self esteem white girls go to black guys because they aren't "accepted" as well with white guys. my sister would be a shining example of this... she's overweight and white guys have essentially shunned her, so she got stuck up with black guys because they treat white women as "Trophies".
What does being overweight have to do with dating black guys? Nothing. There are tons of very attractive women who are interested in black guys. This is so off-base it's funny. The only assumption I can make is that you know of one example of a white woman dating a black man (ie. your sister) and are using that to make horrible generalizations. Of course, you think that interracial relationships are wrong, so I guess horrible generalizations are your forte.
ive heard countless black comedians (chappelle, rock, murphy, etc) jump on this issue and say things along the lines of white women being "trophies" and "better than black girls" blah blah blah.
The ignorance of a few (or even many) doesn't make anything correct. If they're happy having "trophies" and the women are happy being "trophies", who are you to tell them otherwise?
and what i really dont understand is what black dudes feel the need to reassure everyone in the world 15 times over that they have a enormous penis and it's better than anyone elses. shit, turn on any rap song and guaranteed theres some black dude in there bragging about how big his **** is.
I hear more white people talking about penis size than black people. A lot more. A lot, a lot, a lot more. Besides, penis size is a physical attribute: if you're ripped, you'll probably rap about beating someone's ***.
1.) huge cocks hurt women. *** is about pleasure, pain during *** isn't fun.
2.) countless women i've talked to said they would prefer a 6 or 7 incher over a 9 or 10 incher any day of the week. size DOES matter, but theres a limit. only loose *****y **** stars who get paid to **** hundreds of men like 12 inches of rod up their canal.
Some like them ridiculously big. Some like pain during ***. Again, you're painting with a too-broad brush.
its a double standard... white guys state their opinion, they're racist. yet all these black comedians and figures can come out and make fun of the issue, degrade white guys and white women, and they are praised for being "edgy". the SECOND a white guy starts being "edgy" it turns into racism and ignorance.
And that's not right. Some are trying to end these weird racist tendencies that are learned by some. You're promoting racism in both ways by saying "My behaviour is acceptable because no one has punished that person yet." Seems a little adolescent to me.
remember richards from sienfield? he said nig**r and now his career is essentially over. yet i can throw $1,000 on this table that if you turn on comedy central when theres any black comedian on, i can GUARANTEE they say "cracker" more than once and nobody thinks twice. double standard?
Yes, there is a double standard. There's also a double standard when black people try to do anything with their lives. Which is worse? I don't agree with that stance on either side, but please don't use it to justify that inter-racial relationships are wrong.
think for yourself. if you don't like interracial relationships, thats YOUR RIGHT AS AN AMERICAN. you are NOT wrong for believing that... this dumbass politically correct society wants you to believe you're wrong.. **** em.
It's not about being politically correct: it's about being a human being with enough intelligence to separate stereotypes that have been pushed on you your entire life and standing up for good morale decency. Sure, these are just thoughts, but if you string enough like-minded thoughts together you get oppression, whether it's racially biased or supplied by any other motives.
You are wrong if you think that the colour of someone's skin is a fair determinant for relationships. I don't care that it's your right as an American or not. Talk about abuse of rights to be an ignoramus.
