So I'm proposing to my gf in the near future after a 3.5, nearly 4 year relationship. One of her married girlfriends who we hang out with from time to time is sending me not-so-discreet reminders on facebook that my girl's b-day is coming up and I might want to be shopping for a little something something. Tried to send me a message tonight on facebook asking if I've done any shopping lately but I ignored her.
It's pissing me off as Im doing it soon cause Im ready and I want to, and will be buying a ring soon enough. But I am tired of other people asking stupid questions about it and trying to tell me what I'm supposed to do and when. Also, I really am not close enough to this girl that she needs to be getting all up in my shit asking when I'm gonna pop the question. I take that in stride from my own crew but it's kinda ballsy coming from someone whose more the girlfriend's friend than mine.
I doubt I even really want to socialize with this girl and her husband anymore if she's gonna be making stupid comments and bothering me about this all the time. Like she thinks it's somehow cute and funny to be all up in my business and try to encourage me to become a whipped *****-*** like her husband is. I just keep thinking if I keep allowing myself to hang out with her and she keeps bugging me about this I may just loose it and say something that will offend her and piss my girlfriend off.
Just wondering: Am I overreacting or do people think I have a right to be irritated and to be ready to tell this girl to shut the **** up and mind her own business?
It's pissing me off as Im doing it soon cause Im ready and I want to, and will be buying a ring soon enough. But I am tired of other people asking stupid questions about it and trying to tell me what I'm supposed to do and when. Also, I really am not close enough to this girl that she needs to be getting all up in my shit asking when I'm gonna pop the question. I take that in stride from my own crew but it's kinda ballsy coming from someone whose more the girlfriend's friend than mine.
I doubt I even really want to socialize with this girl and her husband anymore if she's gonna be making stupid comments and bothering me about this all the time. Like she thinks it's somehow cute and funny to be all up in my business and try to encourage me to become a whipped *****-*** like her husband is. I just keep thinking if I keep allowing myself to hang out with her and she keeps bugging me about this I may just loose it and say something that will offend her and piss my girlfriend off.
Just wondering: Am I overreacting or do people think I have a right to be irritated and to be ready to tell this girl to shut the **** up and mind her own business?
