why am i such a...

[Mark_ab 5,000+ posts]

ive been wanting to learn how to break...//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/up2something.gif.dd110ecf3ae4b76050d87598f2f8de7c.gif lol

Then learn. Dance for the fun of it and girls tend to pick up on it. I'm approached constantly (sure, I'm beautiful, but that's beside the point) just because I'm having a good time dancing and not caring about hitting on girls. Also, get a girlfriend. Then all the girls will want you.

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Just stand there and move and let her grind her *** on yuor dick. Thats dancing enough. Also get a lil buzzed or something. Just talk to random chicks anywhere, the mall and girls that you come in contact with, anywhere.

 

[sumone 10+ year member]

Just learn to dance. But actually dance. Not the white guy sway. You don't even need to bother working up the courage to talk to them, they come to you. Happens all the time.

White guy sway...that's a classic!

 

[regal8r 5,000+ posts]

Just stand there and move and let her grind her *** on yuor dick. Thats dancing enough. Also get a lil buzzed or something. Just talk to random chicks anywhere, the mall and girls that you come in contact with, anywhere.

girls dont do that around here...well, to me anways. and when im buzzed/drunk and talking to 'random' chicks, it turns out they have b/f's and i dont find this out until AFTER i make a total *** out of myself, its happened before...

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

Making a total *** out of yourself is the only way to learn, and get used to it. Also why dont girls do that? go to the club I bet they will.

 

[sumone 10+ year member]

girls dont do that around here...well, to me anways. and when im buzzed/drunk and talking to 'random' chicks, it turns out they have b/f's and i dont find this out until AFTER i make a total *** out of myself, its happened before...

Sometimes my first statement's are "Where yo man at?" Or the go-for-the-gold-on-approach one, "Can I be your boyfriend?".

One time we (me & the crew) were in this white hood. We see this thick-*** white girl talking to a guy....could've been her boyfriend. My friend just walked up to her & asked her for a hug...in which she obliged (and he proceeded to feel all on her ***...you know the hug & ***-grab move). Meanwhile guy-friend walks off. So you ain't always gotta be intimidated by "boyfriend"...

 

[regal8r 5,000+ posts]

Sometimes my first statement's are "Where yo man at?" Or the go-for-the-gold-on-approach one, "Can I be your boyfriend?".
One time we (me & the crew) were in this white hood. We see this thick-*** white girl talking to a guy....could've been her boyfriend. My friend just walked up to her & asked her for a hug...in which she obliged (and he proceeded to feel all on her ***...you know the hug & ***-grab move). Meanwhile guy-friend walks off. So you ain't always gotta be intimidated by "boyfriend"...

i imagine the only reason why the guy friend walked away was bc he was white:crap:

 

[azbass 5,000+ posts]

nice you were at village inn

 

[Brock 5,000+ posts]

its all about your approach. look at it this way, its just a conversation, nothing more. relax. if you walk up to the girl with the intention of sexxin' her brains out then youve already fuct up your odds. go ahead and get your mind out of the gutter. girls don't want to hear that pimp player hustler shit because they get it all the time. if you can actually strike up a real conversation then youre golden...if you can't, well, I feel sorry for you.

and being able to dance is like bonus points in donkey kong

 

[ss3079 5,000+ posts]

Brock and Mark are the alpha males.

Listen to them. Especially Brock.

Mark picks up guys and is already all mine

 

[AcidicDreams 10+ year member]

I went on a two year drug binge (was actually smoking an ounce a day + lots of other stuff) for about 2 years and once I cleaned up I had confidence with women... I don't really know why or what I did all that time but it worked wonders for me... ohh yah, after the drugs I also had a 38yr old g/f when I was 21... all that great *** helped too...

 

[adam71 5,000+ posts]

The key to approaching girls is to NOT give a fuck. If you're afraid of rejection you will get nowhere. You have to not care about being rejected.

Just say FUCK IT

 

[Johnny Drama 5,000+ posts]

As Brock said, conversation is the way to go. and as Mark said dancing cant hurt.(Some of us cant dance...Except for the "White boy shuffle")

My experience has tought me that the girl will make up her mind about you in the first 5 minutes. If you can intertain her for the first initial meet and greet you stand a better chance of getting to know her and or getting her number. Dont bring up ***...dont talk a bunch of BS to her either, she will eventually be uninterrested or call you on your BS. Talk to her as a person. Comment on her looks or the topic at hand, but dont blatently show her your intentions with the comment. If you are tring to build your confidence you may want to stick with a group. You may find that you stand a better chance of keeping the conversation alive that way.

 

[SlimShady16 10+ year member]

Everytime im in your position i just think to myself, whats the worst that could happen? 95% of the time if it dosent go anywhere you will never see the girl again. I m with the whole "F*ck It" attitude and it seems to work. Sometimes you get lucky and it turns into one of those, "oh my god, that just happen?"

 

[regal8r 5,000+ posts]

its all about your approach. look at it this way, its just a conversation, nothing more. relax. if you walk up to the girl with the intention of sexxin' her brains out then youve already fuct up your odds. go ahead and get your mind out of the gutter. girls don't want to hear that pimp player hustler shit because they get it all the time. if you can actually strike up a real conversation then youre golden...if you can't, well, I feel sorry for you.
and being able to dance is like bonus points in donkey kong

never heard that before...wtf does it mean lol

and you all bring up very good points that i already knew but just havent realized...thx alot