the reason why i said this ****ing sucks is because i don't know the first thing about raising a child. i'm kinda anxious to meet the kid though. i usually work from 9 to 9 so i won't see the kid often. she is still bitter cause of the way i dumped her. i basically told her i'm leaving cause all i wanted was to have *** and we did, so goodbye.Yes but not like in full conversations yet...Yes
Yes, some of them. There aare some 2 yr olds that are potty-trained but they are in the minority.
Dunno what to tell you, my man. Having a kid can be the coolest thing in the world or it can be a total drag. Which end of the spectrum your experience falls on will be largely dependent on your overall attitude of the situation. "man this ****ing sucks" probably isn't the most constructive way to look at it.
Inarguably it makes things less simple when an ex still harbors a grudge.....unfortunately it will be more often than not that one parent or another (when the parents in question are estranged from one another) will use the progeny as a pawn against the other on various things. Ergo: "Well, if you don't ____________, then you can't see your child anymore!" - type garbage. Try as hard as you can to prevent that from happening ~ whether or not it's convenient if the child is yours it is your responsibility to see they get raised well.
I know, I know ~ this probably isn't what you want to hear but it's truth nonetheless. I'm not bagging on you....just stating fact. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif
everything will work out dude, but I would definatly get a paternity test. Its kinda odd that just now she is telling you, Plus since yall had a bad break up...there might be the "Ill tell him that its his kid just so me and him can be together". but even if he is yours, being a dad can be one of the best expereinces ever (keep in mind im 18, and have NO kids) so take what I say as you wish, but no matter what things will be OK.i can hardly keep my cat alive, let alone a child
everything will work out dude, but I would definatly get a paternity test. Its kinda odd that just now she is telling you, Plus since yall had a bad break up...there might be the "Ill tell him that its his kid just so me and him can be together". but even if he is yours, being a dad can be one of the best expereinces ever (keep in mind im 18, and have NO kids) so take what I say as you wish, but no matter what things will be OK.
she didn't contact me. it's a long story how it went down. i'm still gonna get a paternity test. how and where do i get one? i read that thread about the std test and no one will stick a q-tip in my c0ck hole