indeed there is a hooters in charlotte, but thats not a good place for a stereo meet... its a good place to eat wings, drink beer, and look at chicks. but not so much for meeting people and checking out their stereos.
id suggest doing it at a park, a parking lot, or a parking deck(top level for obvious reasons).
with that being said, i would suggest park road park or south park malls parking deck top level. either of which would put us at a somewhat ideal location to go to a hooters afterwords. or park road park would give us the option of grilling food there, which is what gets my vote.
those are just two locations that come to mind, im sure i could think of some others if neither of those work.