How to tell your girl you cheated

[brodeisel 10+ year member]

Watch out hes Trolling us and winning.

 

[ColterDC 10+ year member]

I bet you she cares

Don't get me wrong man, I'm sure she does care.

But there's obviously a huge difference in cheating when you're in a long term relationship, especially if children are involved, and a couple that's really only dating.

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

Gunna sit down and have this talk with my GF tomorrow... Not about me but asking her is she has cuz I have had more then enough reasons to believe she has... Its gunna hurt like hell I she has...

then it's better not to know

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

It will s uck Payton had it happen to me before but all ended well cause just move om

 

[Bettr n' Revrse 5,000+ posts]

then it's better not to know

I have thought of that but... I guess its something I just cant not know

It will s uck Payton had it happen to me before but all ended well cause just move om

I dont think she has honestly... She used to be a party girl and still gets wild but she isnt that kind of wild...

 

[dragnix 5,000+ posts]

Don't get me wrong man, I'm sure she does care.
But there's obviously a huge difference in cheating when you're in a long term relationship, especially if children are involved, and a couple that's really only dating.

It's still cheating and either way it hurts. It just depends on how much

 

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I have thought of that but... I guess its something I just cant not know


I dont think she has honestly... She used to be a party girl and still gets wild but she isnt that kind of wild...

What makes you think she'll even tell you the truth? If she lied to you before, she can do it again

 

[ColterDC 10+ year member]

It's still cheating and either way it hurts. It just depends on how much

Agreed....my point exactly //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[Bettr n' Revrse 5,000+ posts]

It's still cheating and either way it hurts. It just depends on how much 

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What makes you think she'll even tell you the truth? If she lied to you before, she can do it again

She hasnt lied just has a really good way of not telling the whole truth... Most of the time so I dont hurt someone though lol... One time she had some rumors spread around her dorm that she slept with this guy... She told me about it before I found out cuz she knew Id be pissed if she hadnt... Her roomates spread it around and tried telling me cuz they didnt like me... But what she left out was that he was the one that started them to try and break us up cuz she wouldnt sleep with him... I didnt find that out for a year and if I knew where he was today Id beat him within an 1" of his life... So the stuff she doesnt tell me is things like that...

 

[matt_bennett05 10+ year member]

Bro, no matter which way you want to think about it, or what you want to hear, I had a chick like that once who used me like a damm tampon and threw me out when I was useless to her. Literally, was working for her dad, 60+ hr. weeks. Supporting her from that. Living with them because she had talked me into basically leaving my home and telling my parents to f off. Then, come to find out she had a few friends come from where she moved from and one of them was a dude. Well I find out he liked her, told her, and she "couldn't just stop talking to a friend". Yada, yada, yada, I find them together one day when we get back in a pool, not so far apart, and that was it. Done. I got nutty, made extremely stupid decisions, and ended up trying to leave drunk (well wasted to put it in better terms). Car f'd me trying to leave and died. Then I had to continue to work for her dad (after letting him know how I felt about literally everything) just to get my ride repaired so I could leave.

AND that's not the only gal who used me... once I got used for my **** 3:00 am self and left morning after... but that's a different story...

 

[Imtjnotu 5,000+ posts]

Women always tell the half truth haha

 

[morespl 10+ year member]

I can honestly say i have never seen a bigger bunch of little bitches in my life. (with a couple exceptions)
if you really believe that at some point someone wont say something or she wont suspect something then your insane.

and if she does suspect something and asks you about it. if she truly ment something to you, you wouldnt be able to lie to her face.

not to mention what happens if there is a kid that turns up as a result of you having no self control. are you going to try to hide that?

this thread is a perfect example of the simple fact that people dont want to take accountability for their own actions.

Dude, accountability has nothing to do with it. Telling a person you cheated on that you cheated on them is to relieve your own guilt and is selfish. Not to mention she will not trust him an he won't be able to trust her after so if you tell her you might just end it. You start calling people ******* for not being accountable so next time your speeding flag a cop down and tell him you broke the law. In fact nothing good could come from him telling her so why would he.

 

[Why So Cereal? 5,000+ posts]

If ya do tell her u cheated, make sure ya wear a cup.

 

[treadburner 10+ year member]

just dont tell unless u know it is gonna get back to her end of story

 

[matt_bennett05 10+ year member]

Don't be that guy that texts that isht. I've seen beatdowns on more than one occasion from that.

 

[matt_bennett05 10+ year member]

just dont tell unless u know it is gonna get back to her end of story

Someone will know, she will find out. I've yet to see something that's serious not eventually come out. Even if he vows silence.