how to pick up girls

[palikt 10+ year member]

i have a ????

how do you get babes?? i have the car ,money looks but i just dont know when and how to talk to them

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[97dakota 10+ year member]

wow took guts to admit that bro.

 

[furiousedge 10+ year member]

Just be yourself and if she digs ya, she digs ya.........its the personality that attracts some women. all the money that you have and the car that you have is materialistic and a bonus being with you there are a FEW girls left that don't look at the materialistic thing in life!!!

 

[Randy Savage 5,000+ posts]

Originally posted by palikt i just dont know when and how to talk to them

I got some balls this weekend and went up to a hot girl and talked to her...right andy?

I think saying something innocent and funny is a good start...most girls don't want an arrogant guy that thinks he can get anyone...

 

[i3abyjay25 10+ year member]

80% of getting the girl.. is being able to go talk to her...

 

[97dakota 10+ year member]

Originally posted by i3abyjay25 80% of getting the girl.. is being able to go talk to her...

aren't you the one going to a funeral, I mean wedding soon. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif

 

[Gauntlet 5,000+ posts]

Originally posted by palikt i have a ????

 

how do you get babes?? i have the car ,money looks but i just dont know when and how to talk to them

There are two ways:

1) Go to a club. Get drunk. Find some random drunk girl. Say something stupid. Get a motel room.

2) When you notice a girl you'd like to know better, start up a conversation with her. Don't just be like "hey, let me get your number", try to have a meaningful conversation. If you can, take an interest in whatever she's doing at the current time. Don't expect to meet real women at a bar or a club (although it can happen) and things like that; the typical places are rejections, one night stands, and break-ups waiting to happen. If you want my advice....one of the best places to meet women is at a bookstore or library. See a girl you find attractive looking at a book, start up a convo about the book, use that as segue to talk about other things, and when she seems to be really genuinely interested, say you have to go and ask for her number. If you leave her wanting more, it will peak the interest of both parties for when you see each other again - assertivesness is very underrated. Bookstores are also full of intelligent women who you can have a real conversation with, which is always a plus. Also, don't approach women on the job, such as waitresses. The last thing they want while working is for some idiot trying to spit game at her.

Oh yeah....don't try so hard. Don't go all out of your way over some broad you don't know. But if you're compelled to talk to someone, then go for it. Confidence is probably the most important thing, and by posting this question on the internet, it shows your lack of confidence. Just be yourself and things will eventually fall in place.

 

[violator5spd 10+ year member]

Unfortunately, I've found that I can always get the girls that I don't want. Sure, they might be attractive, but they're always a ***** or they're always weird. Kinda sucks, but I've learned to recognize when a girl's not for me. So if you find a girl, and she happens to like you, DO NOT, and I repeat, DO NOT just try to like her because she likes you. I've done that, and it never works. You'll only like who you want to, so just think about it and relax...good luck bro.

 

[nick3470 10+ year member]

i have 2 ways

1) over the top- just do something really loud (with friends), to get there attention, then just start talkin to them (crazy but it works)

2) the sweet innocent way- if you see her lookin at u, or you want her to, jsut start an innocent conversation (funny helps), then go from there (whatever you do, dont start talkin about anyting boring)

 

[andy00018 10+ year member]

Originally posted by snova031 I got some balls this weekend and went up to a hot girl and talked to her...right andy?

 

I think saying something innocent and funny is a good start...most girls don't want an arrogant guy that thinks he can get anyone...

Yea she was hot as hell!!! Yea the main thing is just going up and talking to her, not trying to act all big and stuff.

 

[loserpunk 10+ year member]

hey you just gotta be yourself...if it takes gettin drunk to do that then i guess you'll get drunk ...just dont' try to act cool....they see right through it

 

[furiousedge 10+ year member]

Originally posted by Gauntlet There are two ways:

 

1) Go to a club. Get drunk. Find some random drunk girl. Say something stupid. Get a motel room.

 

2) When you notice a girl you'd like to know better, start up a conversation with her. Don't just be like "hey, let me get your number", try to have a meaningful conversation. If you can, take an interest in whatever she's doing at the current time. Don't expect to meet real women at a bar or a club (although it can happen) and things like that; the typical places are rejections, one night stands, and break-ups waiting to happen. If you want my advice....one of the best places to meet women is at a bookstore or library. See a girl you find attractive looking at a book, start up a convo about the book, use that as segue to talk about other things, and when she seems to be really genuinely interested, say you have to go and ask for her number. If you leave her wanting more, it will peak the interest of both parties for when you see each other again - assertivesness is very underrated. Bookstores are also full of intelligent women who you can have a real conversation with, which is always a plus. Also, don't approach women on the job, such as waitresses. The last thing they want while working is for some idiot trying to spit game at her.

 

Oh yeah....don't try so hard. Don't go all out of your way over some broad you don't know. But if you're compelled to talk to someone, then go for it. Confidence is probably the most important thing, and by posting this question on the internet, it shows your lack of confidence. Just be yourself and things will eventually fall in place.

Dr. Phil...I mean Gauntlet. YOU ARE THE MAN!!! That is some good information!

 

[xplicit 10+ year member]

tip #1: if your gonna pick up girls, dont let her know you resort to car audio internet forums for advise on how to "get her"

=)

 

[TheGrimReaperKD 10+ year member]

Originally posted by Gauntlet There are two ways:

2) When you notice a girl you'd like to know better, start up a conversation with her. Don't just be like "hey, let me get your number", try to have a meaningful conversation. If you can, take an interest in whatever she's doing at the current time. Don't expect to meet real women at a bar or a club (although it can happen) and things like that; the typical places are rejections, one night stands, and break-ups waiting to happen. If you want my advice....one of the best places to meet women is at a bookstore or library. See a girl you find attractive looking at a book, start up a convo about the book, use that as segue to talk about other things, and when she seems to be really genuinely interested, say you have to go and ask for her number. If you leave her wanting more, it will peak the interest of both parties for when you see each other again - assertivesness is very underrated. Bookstores are also full of intelligent women who you can have a real conversation with, which is always a plus. Also, don't approach women on the job, such as waitresses. The last thing they want while working is for some idiot trying to spit game at her.

 

Oh yeah....don't try so hard. Don't go all out of your way over some broad you don't know. But if you're compelled to talk to someone, then go for it. Confidence is probably the most important thing, and by posting this question on the internet, it shows your lack of confidence. Just be yourself and things will eventually fall in place.

Always wanted to f*ck a librarian. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 

[Bumpin03 10+ year member]

go up to her and start talking about your future plans with car audio....the girls will come flockin.