AllStar1500bd
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So you've found a girl that's a friend of your friend. You're interested? Relationship maybe? Good.
Step 1 - Get introduced to her. Make small talk, not too much flirting. Make at least one or two attempts to touch her on the hand, arm or leg. Touch is the highest form of affirmed conversation skills.
A few days later, maybe next weekend...
Step 2 - Get a little more flirty with the small talk, talk to her friends in a non-flirty way so she knows the difference. Don't talk to her too much and know when to walk away. Dance with her when you get the chance. Learn what styles of music she likes/dislikes without asking.
A few weeks later...
Step 3 - Ask her to go to lunch or go grab some food. Just a 1 on 1 conversation. No friends. Ask her about her family, friends, school, pets, etc... find common ground.
*The key in this step is to show that you're semi-interested, but more-over making sure that she is interested in you as well. If she's not interested in you, then know how to move on.
This next step could be weeks to months later...
Step 4 - Do stuff together, not often, but once in a while. Make sure that she gets comfortable with you. Again, try not to come on strong. Keep it flirty, but casual flirty. If you want to scare her off, then this is where you'd ask her where you guys stand - ie: friends or more? If you want to try and build a strong base for something, then this step is where you see if she wants to do something fun that she's never done before. Examples: paintball, amusement park, etc... (nothing too romantic, just fun).
More steps to come later.... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif
Hopefully this helps out some of you...
Step 1 - Get introduced to her. Make small talk, not too much flirting. Make at least one or two attempts to touch her on the hand, arm or leg. Touch is the highest form of affirmed conversation skills.
A few days later, maybe next weekend...
Step 2 - Get a little more flirty with the small talk, talk to her friends in a non-flirty way so she knows the difference. Don't talk to her too much and know when to walk away. Dance with her when you get the chance. Learn what styles of music she likes/dislikes without asking.
A few weeks later...
Step 3 - Ask her to go to lunch or go grab some food. Just a 1 on 1 conversation. No friends. Ask her about her family, friends, school, pets, etc... find common ground.
*The key in this step is to show that you're semi-interested, but more-over making sure that she is interested in you as well. If she's not interested in you, then know how to move on.
This next step could be weeks to months later...
Step 4 - Do stuff together, not often, but once in a while. Make sure that she gets comfortable with you. Again, try not to come on strong. Keep it flirty, but casual flirty. If you want to scare her off, then this is where you'd ask her where you guys stand - ie: friends or more? If you want to try and build a strong base for something, then this step is where you see if she wants to do something fun that she's never done before. Examples: paintball, amusement park, etc... (nothing too romantic, just fun).
More steps to come later.... //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif
Hopefully this helps out some of you...
