How long would you wait for ***?

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

thank you, its good to see that other people agree with me. i'm in college and expected to sleep around and i'm not into that. my friend tonight handed me the "do not disturb" sign from the hotel he took his gf to this weekend and told me, "bring me one of these when you are a real man."
the way i see it a "real man" will respect a woman enough to wait.

You make excellent points. For most of my life I never respected women, now I seem to have a change of heart. Perhaps this will lead me to a happier life.

 

[mapolley07 10+ year member]

I know most people won't wait until marriage, but the longer you wait and the less people you sleep with the better off you are. It doesn't matter who you are, what religion you are, what race you are. *** has a serious impact on relationships and the ability to maintain a strong relationship.

 

[mapolley07 10+ year member]

You make excellent points. For most of my life I never respected women, now I seem to have a change of heart. Perhaps this will lead me to a happier life.

see, this is an issue i have always felt very strongly about, even when i wasn't a Christian. I have always felt that *** is a huge factor in a relationship, and if you need *** to maintain a relationship, then your relationship really isn't very strong at all. *** is a lot more than a physical act, no matter what you try to convince yourself.

and i am glad to hear that you realize that it is a respect issue. I think that your relationships will probably be stronger because of that.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

see, this is an issue i have always felt very strongly about, even when i wasn't a Christian. I have always felt that *** is a huge factor in a relationship, and if you need *** to maintain a relationship, then your relationship really isn't very strong at all. *** is a lot more than a physical act, no matter what you try to convince yourself.
and i am glad to hear that you realize that it is a respect issue. I think that your relationships will probably be stronger because of that.

Untill now all I wanted was *** and no relationship. After seeing a lot of people I know get married and seem happy, I feel I'm missing out at my current rate.

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

see, this is an issue i have always felt very strongly about, even when i wasn't a Christian. I have always felt that *** is a huge factor in a relationship, and if you need *** to maintain a relationship, then your relationship really isn't very strong at all. *** is a lot more than a physical act, no matter what you try to convince yourself.
and i am glad to hear that you realize that it is a respect issue. I think that your relationships will probably be stronger because of that.

you sound like dr. phil or something

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

I respect what you all are saying about waiting till marriage, but d*mn. Gotta test drive the car before you buy it!!!

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

I respect what you all are saying about waiting till marriage, but d*mn. Gotta test drive the car before you buy it!!!

Trust me, I took a test drive.

In the end I have a 3 year old daughter I'll never see.

Time to grow up //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

then you get curious about what else is out there. or some people do. if its this good with her/him i wonder what its like with her/him. people always think they are missing out on something when they are in a committed relationship.

That is what ruined my first relationship.

Now I know...it's all about the same.

 

[mapolley07 10+ year member]

a woman is not a car, and nothing like a car!!! if you would base a marriage or the decision not to marry a woman because of how good she was in bed, then you really need to re-evaluate

 

[docutech 10+ year member]

Had to wait 8 months once.

Did a tour in Desert Storm and there wasn't a chick in sight. Only camels. Plus I was married //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/uhoh.gif.c07307dd22ee7e63e22fc8e9c614d1fd.gif

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

Untill now all I wanted was *** and no relationship. After seeing a lot of people I know get married and seem happy, I feel I'm missing out at my current rate.

x2...

But how do I go from a 3 day lay to a real relationship?

If I don't fuck quickly, I risk getting thrown in the friend zone.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

a woman is not a car, and nothing like a car!!! if you would base a marriage or the decision not to marry a woman because of how good she was in bed, then you really need to re-evaluate

Well to be fair, I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life throwing my hotdog down a hallway.

 

[Trancer 10+ year member]

a woman is not a car, and nothing like a car!!! if you would base a marriage or the decision not to marry a woman because of how good she was in bed, then you really need to re-evaluate

I disagree... But then again, I really like cars. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/cool.gif.3bcaf8f141236c00f8044d07150e34f7.gif

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

x2...
But how do I go from a 3 day lay to a real relationship?

If I don't fuck quickly, I risk getting thrown in the friend zone.

So then add her as a friend and perhaps that will lead to other opportunity's.

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

So then add her as a friend and perhaps that will lead to other opportunity's.

The friend zone has yielded no opportunity except someone to call when they are broke down and no one else would answer.

Wow, I get to wake up and try to change a tire on a van...

(This actually happened tonight)