How long would you wait for ***?

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

Quite graphic...lol

sometimes you gotta be to get your point across.. ha ha hey my ex was bipolar, that means some crazy times in the sack.......

 

[mapolley07 10+ year member]

honestly bipolar would kind of scare me as far as *** goes....i'd be afraid i'd wake up like John Wayne Bobbitt

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

i say wait until marriage....if not for a religious standpoint then simply for the likelihood of ever having a strong marriage that will last a long time. Virgin couples who marry are exponentially more likely to have a solid marriage that will last. The more partners you have had the more likely you are to get divorced quickly, and the more *** you had with your spouse prior to marriage, the more likely you are to divorce quickly.
Sure it seems great now to just go get laid, but in the long run you are better off waiting. Also, for me, I know most girls regret having *** early in a relationship or losing their virginity at an early age. I wouldn't want to be responsible for a girl making a decision that she will regret for the rest of her life.

Thats my view on things, but y'all are gonna flame me and go get laid so its whatever.

i dont think i would flame on you, i would question how accurate those figures are though. to me i would think those numbers would be flipped. i mean wouldnt it me natural just to think what *** with someone else would be like?

ive only had 2 partners and im always wondering what *** with her, her, and that girls is like ha ha i know i could never cheat on my girl, i love her and will marry her but its something that kicks in my head every now and then

i wonder how many of those virgin couples that stayed together had infedelity in their marriage and just worked it out.

 

[iceteebone 5,000+ posts]

I would love to marry a virgin. 22 year old virgins seem hard to come by though these days.

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

honestly bipolar would kind of scare me as far as *** goes....i'd be afraid i'd wake up like John Wayne Bobbitt

we were only teenagers so only a couple times actually spent the night together ha ha... as long as you didnt piss her off you were good. if you caught her during pms or you pissed her off LOOK OUT ha ha thats why it didnt work out. i wasnt going to jail for the one time i knew i was going to snap and kick her *** ha ha so i ended it before i could

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

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waited till i was married

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i dont think i would flame on you, i would question how accurate those figures are though. to me i would think those numbers would be flipped. i mean wouldnt it me natural just to think what *** with someone else would be like?
ive only had 2 partners and im always wondering what *** with her, her, and that girls is like ha ha i know i could never cheat on my girl, i love her and will marry her but its something that kicks in my head every now and then

i wonder how many of those virgin couples that stayed together had infedelity in their marriage and just worked it out.

you had a good point earlier.

about 4 months

Has it ever come up? you two never been turned on or messed around at all?

 

[SRim23 5,000+ posts]

I would love to marry a virgin. 22 year old virgins seem hard to come by though these days.

yeah, there normally is a reason a girl is a virgin..either shes really religious and totally lives by the bible or she looks like the chick DEERHUNT just nailed ha ha

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

my gf is a virgin, and i am a virgin and i intend on keeping it that way till i'm married. I don't want to feel guilty about boning other women after I'm married. I can stand to wait until I'm hitched because I know I have the rest of my like to have ***.

 

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i did, my ex wife was the first person i ever had *** with.

 

[mapolley07 10+ year member]

you can find the statistics on various websites. I think its just that if someone thought *** was an important enough aspect to a marriage to wait for their spouse, then they value that portion of their relationship and will have the will power not to cheat. I mean, if you can wait until you are 25 or 30 and married, obviously *** is more about expressing your love for your spouse than just getting laid. And *** will just seem amazing since you have nothing to compare it to.

My thought is that people that have had *** with many people will regard *** as less special and will get bored with one person and then that is where most infidelity happens. The more people you have *** with the less value you place on ***, and it becomes more of a physical activity than an expression of love and melding souls. It sounds cheesy, but if you think about it, its pretty sensible to think that way

 

[jmanpc 5,000+ posts]

you can find the statistics on various websites. I think its just that if someone thought *** was an important enough aspect to a marriage to wait for their spouse, then they value that portion of their relationship and will have the will power not to cheat. I mean, if you can wait until you are 25 or 30 and married, obviously *** is more about expressing your love for your spouse than just getting laid. And *** will just seem amazing since you have nothing to compare it to.
My thought is that people that have had *** with many people will regard *** as less special and will get bored with one person and then that is where most infidelity happens. The more people you have *** with the less value you place on ***, and it becomes more of a physical activity than an expression of love and melding souls. It sounds cheesy, but if you think about it, its pretty sensible to think that way

couldn't have said it better myself

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

i did, my wife was the first person i ever had *** with.

Didn't you also have *** with her friend?

 

[Chevillac 5,000+ posts]

you can find the statistics on various websites. I think its just that if someone thought *** was an important enough aspect to a marriage to wait for their spouse, then they value that portion of their relationship and will have the will power not to cheat. I mean, if you can wait until you are 25 or 30 and married, obviously *** is more about expressing your love for your spouse than just getting laid. And *** will just seem amazing since you have nothing to compare it to.
My thought is that people that have had *** with many people will regard *** as less special and will get bored with one person and then that is where most infidelity happens. The more people you have *** with the less value you place on ***, and it becomes more of a physical activity than an expression of love and melding souls. It sounds cheesy, but if you think about it, its pretty sensible to think that way

then you get curious about what else is out there. or some people do. if its this good with her/him i wonder what its like with her/him. people always think they are missing out on something when they are in a committed relationship.

 

[mapolley07 10+ year member]

couldn't have said it better myself

thank you, its good to see that other people agree with me. i'm in college and expected to sleep around and i'm not into that. my friend tonight handed me the "do not disturb" sign from the hotel he took his gf to this weekend and told me, "bring me one of these when you are a real man."

the way i see it a "real man" will respect a woman enough to wait.

 

[fakename 10+ year member]

i had to wait a year till my gf gave in