girlfriend is stoner

i've thought about it just to make me stop considering losing her, but wouldn't she thing of me as a little ***** after just having a big convo about how much i dislike her doing it?
meh.... my gf *****es at me about smoking. When I get a few drinks in her she ltokes up among other things:cool:

 
Does she have any cute friends? Work that angle bro //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

I would //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/naughty.gif.94359f346c0f1259df8038d60b41863e.gif

 
i knew she was when we frist started going out, and somehow i was ok with it then, i even did it a couple times but i've been clean 6+ months. Now that we've been together nearing 8 months it seems to be catching up to me. Almost like it's coming between us, 3 days in a row this week she's gone out at night to visit her stoner friends and smoke. it's for 3-5 hours at at a time, and i don't want to go with her cause im just not into that shit anymore but im having a hard time choosing between putting up with it and either putting up with leaving her... last night i gave her pretty much an ultimatum that i can't see myself continuing to be with a stoner and she said it'd be easy to quit to be with me. But i know all her friends she hangs out with are stoners and she hangs out at least 4 times a week with them. What should i do when she slips up and ends up smoking? Not be mad at her like with quiting cigarettes and just tell her to keep trying? or what if it ends up being 3-4 slips in a month time, It's almost as if she's going to have to lose her friends in order to quit but i don't want that for her, Im just stuck wanting my gf to be happy but she's happy smoking weed but says she's happier with me, it just feels weird having her sacrifice something she enjoys so much. I feel like a dick, but i never said she had to quit she chose it to be with me? I don't want to see her friends anymore cause i know they're going to be judging me about being some controlling dick or something, and if i don't visit her friends with her at least sometimes she's going to get pissed off.
you should split up...i know first hand,itll never work man

 
Does she have any cute friends? Work that angle bro //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif
I wood //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/naughty.gif.94359f346c0f1259df8038d60b41863e.gif
of course

 
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FVCK!!!!......maybe a pic of you 2 together would explain why your with her.?//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

 

thats a lil better //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/crap.gif.7f4dd41e3e9b23fbd170a1ee6f65cecc.gif

should i at least give her a week or so to see if she goes without smoking and if she does give in and smoke dump her then?

pic of said self? itll make the decision easier. that way i can know if you can get better or not.

 
you knew thats what she did when you met her

dont give her an ultimatum, if its that bad, just leave her, if not, then its not that bad.

I did the same thing though.....no ultimatum, but she knew how i felt, and just stopped.

 
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