girlfriend is stoner

[TurdFergueson2 5,000+ posts]

Or just PIIHB

 

[johnmasters 10+ year member]

You must live in the present and listen to your conscience. You should NOT make a decision in the present because of what someone else MIGHT do in the future. Your choice should be about how you feel NOW, NOT how you may feel if she stops. As long as your decision is based on something that she may or may not due then she IS in fact in control of how you feel.

Just think about it... If you stay in a situation that does NOT work for you just because your in love, the message that you are sending to your girlfriend is that even when she does something that does not work for you that you will just put up with it, and she would be correct. This will be the cycle that your relationship stays in because, after all, why should she change. This is no foundation upon which to build a relationship.

BUT,

if you take care of yourself by telling her that although you support anything that she chooses to do, her current behavior does not work for you, therefore you cant be together. Keep in mind, you are NOT asking her to change anything. You are just stating the facts about what does not work for you. Any changes that she may choose to make because of this information will be her choice.

One of Two things WILL happen...

She will either take you seriously and make the necessary changes while you are apart and then return to your life with something to offer and she will have a renewed respect for you. This IS a good foundation!

OR

She wont take you seriously. She wont care to make any changes and will continue to try and get you back while still doing what bothers you. In the mean time you'll be taking care of yourself and find another girl that DOES work for you and forget about the last one. Also a good option.

Maybe an easier way to sum it up is... "Dont stay somewhere that makes you unhappy even if you feel compelled to do so."

Good Luck!

 

[GlassEyez 10+ year member]

This opinion is from a stoner thats into personal responsibility...
You must live in the present and listen to your conscience. You should NOT make a decision in the present because of what someone else MIGHT do in the future. Your choice should be about how you feel NOW, NOT how you may feel if she stops. As long as your decision is based on something that she may or may not due then she IS in fact in control of how you feel.

Just think about it... If you stay in a situation that does NOT work for you just because your in love, the message that you are sending to your girlfriend is that even when she does something that does not work for you that you will just put up with it, and she would be correct. This will be the cycle that your relationship stays in because, after all, why should she change. This is no foundation upon which to build a relationship.

BUT,

if you take care of yourself by telling her that although you support anything that she chooses to do, her current behavior does not work for you, therefore you cant be together. Keep in mind, you are NOT asking her to change anything. You are just stating the facts about what does not work for you. Any changes that she may choose to make because of this information will be her choice.

One of Two things WILL happen...

She will either take you seriously and make the necessary changes while you are apart and then return to your life with something to offer and she will have a renewed respect for you. This IS a good foundation!

OR

She wont take you seriously. She wont care to make any changes and will continue to try and get you back while still doing what bothers you. In the mean time you'll be taking care of yourself and find another girl that DOES work for you and forget about the last one. Also a good option.

Maybe an easier way to sum it up is... "Dont stay somewhere that makes you unhappy even if you feel compelled to do so."

Good Luck!

see? not all stoners are stupid lol. we just like to smoke a lot of pot thats all. nothin wrong wit gettin blitzed out ur dome. every day. hahahhaa

 

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

She is too ugly to put up with the bs

 

[snoopdan 5,000+ posts]

Or just PIIHB

//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif This is usually good advice for any female situation //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/fyi.gif.9f1f679348da7204ce960cfc74bca8e0.gif

 

[ThomasG 5,000+ posts]

Dont be a *** and just go hang out. You don't have to smoke cause they do.

 

[tyler_fitz 10+ year member]

Get rid of her, if it ain't workin it ain't workin. she shouldn't have to change, and you shouldn't have to settle.

In the eyes of a stoner, smoking is pretty trivial, its not a big deal at all. Making someone quit smoking weed is like making someone quit drinking soda pop. What the fuck is the point... i mean, its possible to do... but why?

 

[groundpound4200 5,000+ posts]

Dont be a *** and just go hang out. You don't have to smoke cause they do.

this

 

[Proximity 10+ year member]

I hope your gf is behind that ogre in the picture or there's something wrong with you.

hahahahaha

 

[crash9201 10+ year member]

the thing you gotta realize is, if she truely wants to quite she will, there really is not a **** thing you can do about it. sooner or later your asking her to quite will piss her off and itll be done. the only way for some1 to stop using any drug is on their own terms, its just that....

 

[bumpweLL.nYc 10+ year member]

as long as shes banging just you, you shouldnt care what she does with her other time, as long as its not with your money

 

[audioholic 5,000+ posts]

You never mentioned why her being stoned is such a problem for you. Kick back a few budweisers while she is toking, problem solved. Its just a weed, dont be afraid.

 

[audioholic 5,000+ posts]

Also chicks that toke a lot are nasty.. Dry ******, smelly, lazy, etc..

I dont say this often, but you are an idiot. Please dont ever reproduce. Thankyou.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

Your chick is cheating on you with some jagoff with a hemp necklace, Birkentocks with wool socks, a tie dye shirt under one of those potato sack looking hoodies. I bet his name is Carson or Delvin or some stoner name like that. SHe's getting piped down from some low life stoner that majored in economics and think he knows everything about everything when he is halfway through a joint. He don't smoke blunts because that's too commercial. He rolls up joints because he's a non-conformist. Keep living in your make believe world where you just think your girl is out toking up and only letting you tap it. What do you think they did in the stoner days. They blazed up and had orgies and shit. Love ins and all that. Either all of that, or she's Bi. Which if was the case, you STFU and maybe she'll bring a chick home for you. I don't mess with weed smoking skanks because I don't smoke weed. I don't really like chicks that drink, but a sip of wine is cool I guess. So either you let this chick be or you deal with it.

Might be one of the very few times I agree with you. //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wow.gif.23d729408e9177caa2a0ed6a2ba6588e.gif

 

[Proximity 10+ year member]

I wonder if there is some "boyfriend is pussy" thread on the internet somewhere...