GF crazy or not

[Chriszle 10+ year member]

Only you know if she's worth it to you. It's not a question someone else can answer for you.

 

[BlurredVision 10+ year member]

you usually want to leave someone for treating you wrong or cheating, but this isn't the case. she's fiercely loyal. a lot of people dream to have something like that. just a bad situation in general

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

you usually want to leave someone for treating you wrong or cheating, but this isn't the case. she's fiercely loyal. a lot of people dream to have something like that. just a bad situation in general

like i said before..... how old is she? because you situation sounds just like mine was and now im married to mine """Because i didnt give up""" and im WAY happier then when we were first dating....

 

[Simba33 10+ year member]

like i said before..... how old is she? because you situation sounds just like mine was and now im married to mine """Because i didnt give up""" and im WAY happier then when we were first dating....

THIS^^ im a little over 7 months in, theres times where its like, girl you are WAY overthinking this ****, but im 21 and shes 18. I'm still here because i know i did a TON of growing up and changing between 18 and now, more so than i did in high school. So im holding onto that and maybe can be a big influence on her maturing to a way that will be even more compatible. dont get me wrong its not as bad as OP's, she actually does a lot of things i like for an 18 year old, just sometimes the stuff she says is exactly what an immature 18 year old would say haha. so it really does matter how old she is and if shes got some maturing to do

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

THIS^^ im a little over 7 months in, theres times where its like, girl you are WAY overthinking this ****, but im 21 and shes 18. I'm still here because i know i did a TON of growing up and changing between 18 and now, more so than i did in high school. So im holding onto that and maybe can be a big influence on her maturing to a way that will be even more compatible. dont get me wrong its not as bad as OP's, she actually does a lot of things i like for an 18 year old, just sometimes the stuff she says is exactly what an immature 18 year old would say haha. so it really does matter how old she is and if shes got some maturing to do

exactly.... what im saying. my wife is 21 now. when we were only dating she was 18. she was just graduating high school so she still had the childish mind. in the first 5 months she broke with me 5 times over the most STUPID ish ever lol... yea she had alot of growing to do.... the last time i was to the point of where OP is now. she broke up with me the 5th time and cut off all communication for like 2 weeks before i finally responded and another 2 weeks before i gave her response to anything. i have never in my life had so many calls, texts, voicemails, FB IM's etc lol..... But i had to prove my point, and i did it with out even having to talk to her. That point being, "Im tired of the dumb ish, Grow the fvck up, or im out"...

 

[ace_800 5,000+ posts]

As the house said in Amityville Horror...GET OUT...

 

[Simba33 10+ year member]

exactly.... what im saying. my wife is 21 now. when we were only dating she was 18. she was just graduating high school so she still had the childish mind. in the first 5 months she broke with me 5 times over the most STUPID ish ever lol... yea she had alot of growing to do.... the last time i was to the point of where OP is now. she broke up with me the 5th time and cut off all communication for like 2 weeks before i finally responded and another 2 weeks before i gave her response to anything. i have never in my life had so many calls, texts, voicemails, FB IM's etc lol..... But i had to prove my point, and i did it with out even having to talk to her. That point being, "Im tired of the dumb ish, Grow the fvck up, or im out"...
lol theres been times where i doubted if i could take any more. then i take a breath and tell myself "shes 18, you can mold her" (

 

[bmk6795 10+ year member]

lol...

 

[Sleeklsc 5,000+ posts]

Don't start taking realationsh!ts seriously till both parties are 23+ years old. There are exceptions but from what i've (and friends) experienced it won't last. .02

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

Don't start taking realationsh!ts seriously till both parties are 23+ years old. There are exceptions but from what i've (and friends) experienced it won't last. .02

true but no 2 people are the same. and like in my case, you will never know unless you stick around for a little longer and find to find out.

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

lol theres been times where i doubted if i could take any more. then i take a breath and tell myself "shes 18, you can mold her" (
yea my friends use to question me all the time about why im still with her. but i could never really answer them. but now i can answer why i put up with all the bull ish tantrums and stuff. and it played out nicely. im not saying "ALL RELATIONSHIPS" play out like mine but you never know...

 

[VisceralSound 10+ year member]

true but no 2 people are the same. and like in my case, you will never know unless you stick around for a little longer and find to find out.

True that, my lady and I have been together for about 5 years now (she turned and I turn 21 this year) and we're getting married in October, been a hell of a ride so far.

 

[bgowdy 5,000+ posts]

True that, my lady and I have been together for about 5 years now (she turned and I turn 21 this year) and we're getting married in October, been a hell of a ride so far.

congrats.....

 

[bubbagumper6 5,000+ posts]

No reason to get married that young....

 

[orphe 10+ year member]

Hey guys. I hate bringing my personal problem public, but we have a lot of guys here and maybe you guys can help. I've been dating this girl for about 6 or 7 months now. At first i liked her, but she's not what I thought she was. At first she was going to school, but dropped out. Plans to go back but still. She's turns out to be an alcoholic and a pot head. I got a much better job about a month after I met her and it's having a real bad effect on her. I barely have time for her now. She accuses me of saying and doing chit I know I didn't do. When we start talking about it she chills out and gets happy. So I know it's an attention thing. Honestly, I feel like I'm thru with her, but I can tell she madly loves me. I try not to call or see her much. Sadly, I've haven't screwed her in like 2 and a half months hoping she would run off with some other dude, but it's not working. She is just patiently waiting wondering the next time I'm gonna smash. She tells me I better not be cheating on her. I laugh it off, but she says I'm not laughing. I honestly believe she would try to damage some of my property or hurt me if i tried to leave her. She's the kinda female that would get her brother involved and her friends and all that good stuff, so i know that wouldnt end well. My big question is do i have a stonecold crazy chick on my hands or is this the type of woman that will away be by my side? Like we both make it to be 70 and shes still there. I don't know what to make of her

AT 34 years of age I can tell you one thing... Do not live life by trying to make others happy. It will destroy you in the end. I just dont understand why ppl stay in relationship when they are just not happy. Whats the point? Break up with her. Tell her (dont yell) why you are braking up and that you have had it. If she is nutty as you say she may try to use *** as a tool. Don't fall for it! Try and remain friends. Hell help her find a BF if you can.

At your age (and you are still young BTW) you really need to be dating older chicks. like 24-29 years old. They are a lot more mature and a lot less of a spoiled brat that most 18-23 year old women are.