For the People on the Forum who are Married

Hey Seth I would say that if the chick your with is not the one, don't

give in. When you find the chick that's for you, don't let her go. I'm

old a dirt (40 in August), and I made that mistake 18 years ago. The

quicker you get rid of this one, the better.

Travel a lot, see the world. I've seen your posts; you seem to have your

game tight for your age. No reason for you to settle.

Eventually I too found my wife in a bar, she's nice, she looks good, we

have 2 great kids. Everything is great, it worked out and I'm generally

happy.

But...

 
Wow @ all the people finding their wife in a bar. Looks like I am doing something right!
I had spotted her around town before we actually met at a bar.

But your right drinking seems to go hand in hand with marrige,

the whole way through.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/biggrin.gif.d71a5d36fcbab170f2364c9f2e3946cb.gif

 
i met my soon to be wife in middle school, broke up with her for high school got back together after i graduated been together 6 getting married in november,

if u dont love her dont stay with her wasting both your time. you will know when it right u wont "get used to it" and when u puts her needs before your own, which trust me is very hard to do.

 
ask yourself this...do her pro's outweigh her con's? It is better to be happy by yourself than unhappy with your significant other.

 
I am in no rush to find my significant other. The way I look at it, I want me to have my master's degree and a steady job before I think about marriage. On my current pace, my masters will be when I am 23. I think it would be nice living the single life a year or two with a steady job also. Plenty of money for hunting trips, etc.

27 sounds like a good age for marriage to me..Have kids around 29.

 
Hey Seth I would say that if the chick your with is not the one, don't give in. When you find the chick that's for you, don't let her go. I'm

old a dirt (40 in August), and I made that mistake 18 years ago. The

quicker you get rid of this one, the better.

Travel a lot, see the world. I've seen your posts; you seem to have your

game tight for your age. No reason for you to settle.

Eventually I too found my wife in a bar, she's nice, she looks good, we

have 2 great kids. Everything is great, it worked out and I'm generally

happy.

But...
but??

i have been to every state but, alaska, hawaii, texas, washington, and oregen.

i love to travel. but that can wait for retirement since i have allready seen allot.

i am to a fuck it why not type of guy.. i just dont like to make that type of discission and hurt someone. i have my house, a bad *** job. i live in a beautiful state. i am quite content. im not saying the girl i am with is bad/ nor good.. i mean i have only known her for 4 month's. and the head is phonominal //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/wink.gif.608e3ea05f1a9f98611af0861652f8fb.gif.. haha but i just feal as if my life wont be complete without a bad *** chick, you gotta lose some to wins some..

now say i get a bad *** chick, and she is cool and i would be like OMG i wanna merry this bish.. but her family sucks ect... is that a risk i am/ you would be willing to take..

Wow @ all the people finding their wife in a bar. Looks like I am doing something right!
im telling you, it's ment to be bro

 
lilmaniac2:: Holy shit thats the first post from you ive been able to read... how long did it take you to type that, 2 hours?
2 week's...

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You sound pretty ambitious ... you need a chic who's more ambitious and/or successful. You guys are too old to be smoking that much pot lol.
exactlly but my question is, should i risk it to find a chic that is more ambitious/succesful, what if i dont and end up with nothing or another chic im just like ehh with...

i met my soon to be wife in middle school, broke up with her for high school got back together after i graduated been together 6 getting married in november,
if u dont love her dont stay with her wasting both your time. you will know when it right u wont "get used to it" and when u puts her needs before your own, which trust me is very hard to do.
i do love her, i just look at love diffrent, i didnt come from a lovey dovey family, my parent's got devorced when i was 9, and life was ****ed up from there on out..

ask yourself this...do her pro's outweigh her con's? It is better to be happy by yourself than unhappy with your significant other.
they do. she just is more verble then i am. i am not good with expressing my fealing's.

 
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