Amanda had a great idea for the wedding,
next halloween, we would have a massive catered party, and everyone would have to dress for the party, but we would invite all who we would have for an actual wedding,
the trick is that she and I would dress as bride and groom, and have the rabbi and priest dress in their normal attire,
then somepoint through the night ask the unknowing best men and brides maids to come up front for a "picture", then get her father to walk her through the crowd, and I would be waiting at the front with mine and her friends
it would be a huge laugh on everyone, the costs would be lower, and it would be like no other wedding ever