adio
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THE STEREOTYPE FIGHTER!!!
dear brethren,
i just came off of a date that was friendly. on a date, friendly = this shiit ain't goin nowhere
. so i decided to start this thread to help all of us out when scheduling dates, out on dates and what do to afterwards. please provide your SERIOUS input and number them or letter them.
1.) when first talking to someone new and tryin to hook up a date, see if there's any chemistry over the phone. i don't know how to do this yet, maybe someone can tell me. i know chemistry= pussy after the date or a few days later and friendly= this shiit ain't goin nowhere
2.) if there's unmistakable chemistry, don't be afraid to spend a little cash on the date. and when i say 'a little cash', i mean the type of money where you're sayin to yourself ' ****, i really don't wanna spend this money, i think i might need it for something, but i think she's worth the risk'.
3.) if there's alotta friendliness over the phone, don't suggest going somewhere where u have to chuck up some dough for something (dinner, movies, etc). from now on, if i ain't feelin her over the phone, we'll go to a cafe. it's cheap and quiet and there, u can see if there's chemistry face to face, instead of over the phone. if there's still no chemistry, you just spent 1 - 1.5 hours and $7 instead of 1.5 - 2hours and $35 like my dumbass did.
4.) when on the date, keep a little mystery about you. how do u do that? don't tell this chick everything about you or how you're feeling at this very moment, chemistry or not. women love a little mystery and i'm tellin you this from personal experience. you will know when you're letting on too much about you. you'll either know it while you're making your confessions or immediately afterwards and you'll say to yourself 'i shouldna said/did that'.
5.) tonight, i got the compliments 'you're nice' 'you're sincere and geniune'. if you hear these, theres a really good chance that you're on a friendly date
6.) you're on a date that you thought was a chemistry date. as it goes on, you notice it turns more and more friendly. when the check/bill/pay up time comes,
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO GO DUTCH!!! bein the nice guy that i am, i wish i coulda listened to my own advice tonight cause she was askin me how dou wanna do this i.e. the check. i told her 'i got it' when i really didn't want to. fellas, trust ya man adio, it takes huge HUGE balls to say 'let's go half/dutch' when out on a friendly date. you might think it's easy now readin this, but when you're out there and trying to leave a good impression, it's not!!! i picked up the bill, because i was holding on to a little inkling that this might turn around at the end of the night with me licking her tongue out in the restaurant parking lot; i got a nice 'church' hug and a wave goodbye:eyebrow:
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i just came off of a date that was friendly. on a date, friendly = this shiit ain't goin nowhere
. so i decided to start this thread to help all of us out when scheduling dates, out on dates and what do to afterwards. please provide your SERIOUS input and number them or letter them.1.) when first talking to someone new and tryin to hook up a date, see if there's any chemistry over the phone. i don't know how to do this yet, maybe someone can tell me. i know chemistry= pussy after the date or a few days later and friendly= this shiit ain't goin nowhere
2.) if there's unmistakable chemistry, don't be afraid to spend a little cash on the date. and when i say 'a little cash', i mean the type of money where you're sayin to yourself ' ****, i really don't wanna spend this money, i think i might need it for something, but i think she's worth the risk'.
3.) if there's alotta friendliness over the phone, don't suggest going somewhere where u have to chuck up some dough for something (dinner, movies, etc). from now on, if i ain't feelin her over the phone, we'll go to a cafe. it's cheap and quiet and there, u can see if there's chemistry face to face, instead of over the phone. if there's still no chemistry, you just spent 1 - 1.5 hours and $7 instead of 1.5 - 2hours and $35 like my dumbass did.
4.) when on the date, keep a little mystery about you. how do u do that? don't tell this chick everything about you or how you're feeling at this very moment, chemistry or not. women love a little mystery and i'm tellin you this from personal experience. you will know when you're letting on too much about you. you'll either know it while you're making your confessions or immediately afterwards and you'll say to yourself 'i shouldna said/did that'.
5.) tonight, i got the compliments 'you're nice' 'you're sincere and geniune'. if you hear these, theres a really good chance that you're on a friendly date
6.) you're on a date that you thought was a chemistry date. as it goes on, you notice it turns more and more friendly. when the check/bill/pay up time comes,
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO GO DUTCH!!! bein the nice guy that i am, i wish i coulda listened to my own advice tonight cause she was askin me how dou wanna do this i.e. the check. i told her 'i got it' when i really didn't want to. fellas, trust ya man adio, it takes huge HUGE balls to say 'let's go half/dutch' when out on a friendly date. you might think it's easy now readin this, but when you're out there and trying to leave a good impression, it's not!!! i picked up the bill, because i was holding on to a little inkling that this might turn around at the end of the night with me licking her tongue out in the restaurant parking lot; i got a nice 'church' hug and a wave goodbye:eyebrow:
that's all i can think of for now. please add to this, i think it'll be extremly helpful //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/naughty.gif.94359f346c0f1259df8038d60b41863e.gif//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/yumyum.gif.0556df42231b304b9c995aefd13928a8.gif
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