Ironic, I am just now checking in. Thank goodness for internet access at work!
Well, it was not pretty. We had ourselves a big *** fight, and I busted out with the 100 or so pages of screenies, chat logs and whatnot. Called her out on various statements made and whatnot. At this moment I am not really sure where it will go from here. I have two daughters to think about as well, and I don't much like the thought of putting them through a divorce. It still may end up that way, I just don't know. Definitely a shitty situation all around. I obviously have no trust in her anymore, and she is always gonna wonder if I am watching her every move. Which I most likely would be, what with the whole lack of trust thing. Honestly I don't want to be like that. It's a fundamental part of our marriage that is broken, and I do not know if it can recover or not. She did tell the other individual about getting busted. He, understandably, freaked out when he heard about the dead tree worth of stuff I had. They have since, allegedly, broken off all contact. Obviously, I'm keepin an eye on it all. I'll be happy if one day I don't have to. I don't like being the paranoid stalker type husband, it's just not how I roll. Thats really all there is to it at this point, I'm taking things day by day to see how they turn out, and honestly, I feel really sad for my kids, who undoubtedly can sense some issues are going on between their parents.