Was that response suppposed to be specific tou your answer? If so it tells me that they have what they want to say based on what they anticipate "the inmates" will say. Your answer was too much for them to understand, so they just said what they had planned to in the first place.
I absolutely love that first post by SM. To me, the only other one that compares is the one where he said he has a window overlooking the loading dock.
I know you guys usually wait with great anticipation for my opinion on such matters.
Suprisingly, I tend to agree that the OP is getting hosed. The gash married the man knowing he had a son and with that comes some amount of bullshit.
It takes longer for kids to get established today and 19 is not old at all. The father needs to man up -- to the gash and the punk. He needs to tell the gash that he is not going to put his own son behind the power curve by kicking him out of the house before he can make a living.
Pops needs to tell the son to quit acting like a punk kid. There was a time not too long ago that people were expected to be out by 19 and acting like a man and not a boy. Stay and work on your education, but quit being an *******.