Agreed x10000000000000000000000000000000000000 on the comments thing. This is something we fight about more than anything. She is starting to become more understanding and starting to just say okay, even if she doesn't understand.
For instance, yesterday, we ate a chic-fil-a. I use a fork to dip the nuggets into sauce so I don't get my hands greasy. She wanted to make a comment, but instead just said okay....I think the biggest obstacle in our relationship is her saying "okay" about my idiosyncracies.