Beat my dads a** last night

[SPLnut34 10+ year member]

Cool...you beat a drunk person's ***:beathors:

 

[loopkiller 10+ year member]

So, like I said, trying to help the father out deserves getting punched? If I'm doing something wrong, I would want someone to tell me. My instant reaction is not to fight to but to sort things out. If both parties are unable to do that, you won't ever get a conclusion.

Don't take my statement as being justification of the end result. I was not there and do not know these people myself. I am not an expert in the field of interventions. What I do know is that you only get one father (with the exception of some of you here that have 2 fathers). He should not give up on the relatinship. If he does, he will regret it later in life.

"That is all I have to say about that." - Wise words of our own Forrest Gump

 

[greendragonslim 10+ year member]

This goes for ANY addiction. Addiction is a habbit, an ongoing and chronic habit. There is plenty of pyschology that is associated with this, but the goal is to treat the behavior. People can deal with it, they need all the support and the help they can get, and need to continue trying to make things right. The difficulty is on a case by case basis due to the personality and the severity of addiction for each individual.

true but if they don't want to change, they won't. They have to see the light somehow and usually support helps

 

[James Bang 5,000+ posts]

heartwarming subject.

 

[Korn4Life 5,000+ posts]

My dad is a stoner and when he is High he is the nicest guy you could ever meet but he was also a Drunk . He use to beat me and my mom and my sister. Well long story short they divorced and when I was 19 I layed his *** out right in front of his house and then again two christmas ago... He no longer drinks...

 

[donpisto 5,000+ posts]

LOL the op is 26 and still living at home. If I was his father I'd hit him to.

What's wrong with that? Some families live close to each other. Economy is tough. I'm 24 still living with my parents. If my financial situation was different though, I would have my own place. But working part time, not being able to find a full time position, car payments and insurance, all that doesn't mix too well. And to add, credit card debt due to audio which is just about cleared. You can look at it either way, but say if someone is in their mid 30's and living at home with their parents STILL and it's not because they are taking care of their parents or the parents living with them, well, that's an issue.

 

[donpisto 5,000+ posts]

Don't take my statement as being justification of the end result. I was not there and do not know these people myself. I am not an expert in the field of interventions. What I do know is that you only get one father (with the exception of some of you here that have 2 fathers). He should not give up on the relatinship. If he does, he will regret it later in life.
"That is all I have to say about that." - Wise words of our own Forrest Gump

I can agree with what you said about trying to work things out, however, I do know of people who do not have fathers either because they walked out on them or whatever the reason is. I can't speak for everyone, but who knows how often this occurs. If it's a continuous pattern then I say the OP has to make a decision and do what he thinks is right. If it's the first time, let the heat cool down and try and settle things out.

 

[donpisto 5,000+ posts]

true but if they don't want to change, they won't. They have to see the light somehow and usually support helps

Yep, I agree. There has to be some self effort or willingness for a change to really occur.

 

[JeepSound 10+ year member]

Me- 5'11 170lbs, 17yrs old.

Dad- 6' 260lbs, 38yrs old.

If I hit my dad...I wouldn't be here to type this right now.

Sorry the intervention didn't quite work out as planned.

 

[WhiteIce 10+ year member]

man! i had no choice but to defend myself once he clocked me twice and grabbed me. i was just trying to help him and he thinks i sold him out. he is out of control and i never thought he would do something like that. he 48 and im 26 what what he thinking, i could dance circles around him. the 1st 2 were good punches though.

26 and still living at home? Talk about a cawk block

 

[CantGetEnufBASS 10+ year member]

totally rad bro your sick with it

LOL

 

[RedlineAccord 10+ year member]

Friends dad just died of liver failure because of drinking. Don't give up on him.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

LOL the op is 26 and still living at home. If I was his father I'd hit him to.

STFU............you just moved out and trust me with your lifestyle, it will be a matter of time that you will be right back in the basement of ma and pa's house.

 

[97gp 5,000+ posts]

STFU............you just moved out and trust me with your lifestyle, it will be a matter of time that you will be right back in the basement of ma and pa's house.

Grow up, your such a child.

 

[bigbangtheory 5,000+ posts]

And your a bish *** follower who does nothing but ride other peoples nutz.

Talk about childish.