Mostly morons type stupid crap in the lounge, disregard them. I would move there if you think this relationship has real possiblities, but watch out for the possibility that she basically lives to lives, and that if she is doing this to her current boyfriend what would stop her from doing it to you. Some people basically just like the trill of it, and seek this feeling often. Just be careful, go into it thinking that it is a shot in the dark, then no matter the outcome you will be ahead, its a messed up world out there.