Women trouble...

[BigT22]

So I've been with my curent girlfriend for a little over 2 years. About 3 months ago we moved in together. Lately (like the last few months, even before we moved in together) it seems like she's been really distant. I still love her and like being around her but we just don't have that spark anymore. We hardly ever have *** anymore...I find myself attracted to other women more and more every day. She's the only girl I've ever been with and I don't think I can go through my entire life only being with 1 girl...so it's like in my heart I know we can't last but I don't want to just break up with her and it would screw up a lot of stuff since we did just move in together...any advice?

I was thinking of asking her if we could take a break but still live together. Basically see other people and just be roomates...

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[Rashaddd 5,000+ posts]

Its a crazy idea, but you could talk to her, and find out how she feels...dumbass. But it sounds like you might as well just break up with her...

 

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

You joined, just to make this post... wow

 

[Mike465 10+ year member]

So I've been with my curent girlfriend for a little over 2 years. About 3 months ago we moved in together. Lately (like the last few months, even before we moved in together) it seems like she's been really distant. I still love her and like being around her but we just don't have that spark anymore. We hardly ever have *** anymore...I find myself attracted to other women more and more every day. She's the only girl I've ever been with and I don't think I can go through my entire life only being with 1 girl...so it's like in my heart I know we can't last but I don't want to just break up with her and it would screw up a lot of stuff since we did just move in together...any advice?
I was thinking of asking her if we could take a break but still live together. Basically see other people and just be roomates...

It would be better to see if you can sub lease the room out. If you don't feel like you car going to spend your life with her then don't waste your time. It will only make things worse.

 

[James Bang 5,000+ posts]

weird first post.. but she's probably already two steps ahead of you and fucking other people already.

 

[Louisiana_CRX 5,000+ posts]

he probally was a guest and decided to join because he has read all the helpful advice the guys here have giving other people on their relationship problems //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[BigT22]

lol I didn't join just to make this post, I have another name with over 2K posts but I don't really want this linked to it...

anyway I have talked to her and she just seems to start crying everytime I say anything about us not being together...and I know she isn't cheating on me...we were each other's firsts and she's pretty innocent. She doesn't even have that many friends...she doesn't go anywhere...

and I don't know about sub-leasing the room...i think that's forbidden in our lease, and it's only a 1 bedroom appt. so if got a roommate we would have to share a room

 

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

Lmfao

 

[kush-divinity 10+ year member]

Your problem is that both of you quit trying for the other one. Take a break, then forgive each other's bad behavior in a month, and fall in love all over again.

Right now, my wife of 9 years is growing distant like you say, so I have to give her some slack, and be the sweetest muthafuka in the world. I can't afford a divorce. Our problem is that we quit trying hard for each other, and we took each other for granted. Never do that sir.

 

[cf2004 10+ year member]

weird first post.. but she's probably already two steps ahead of you and fucking other people already.

that's what I owuld put my money on.//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eek.gif.771b7a90cf45cabdc554ff1121c21c4a.gif

 

[Captain_Ahab 5,000+ posts]

You joined, just to make this post... wow

We help out tons of people every year, duh.

lol I didn't join just to make this post, I have another name with over 2K posts but I don't really want this linked to it...
anyway I have talked to her and she just seems to start crying everytime I say anything about us not being together...and I know she isn't cheating on me...we were each other's firsts and she's pretty innocent. She doesn't even have that many friends...she doesn't go anywhere...

and I don't know about sub-leasing the room...i think that's forbidden in our lease, and it's only a 1 bedroom appt. so if got a roommate we would have to share a room

2k posts? Are you serious! Thats crazy!

Shes fking another guy. Trust me. been there, done that. When the *** stops, so should your relationship. Trust me, again.

And if you find a hot girl to sublease it, whats the problem?

 

[BigT22]

no i know she isn't cheating on me, because she wants this relationship WAY more than I do...

It's seriously not that I don't love her anymore...I do

but it's the ****** attraction that is gone. We don't have that "spark" anymore and I'm afraid we'll never get it back

On a related note, like I said I've only ever been with her, I'm 19, in college and I feel like I'm wasting what should be some of the wildest years of my life by tying myself down...

 

[lilmaniac2 5,000+ posts]

We need an ip check

 

[James Bang 5,000+ posts]

We help out tons of people every year, duh.


2k posts? Are you serious! Thats crazy!

Shes fking another guy. Trust me. been there, done that. When the *** stops, so should your relationship. Trust me, again.

And if you find a hot girl to sublease it, whats the problem?

yes, trust this nieger.

 

[BigT22]

We need an ip check

not necassary

dude you haven't been helping at all so I would prefer it if you just left