ok well i'm not going to make this the "omg its over between me and my gf waaaaaaa" cry thread, i just am in a state of "why the ****"; if you dont have something positive to contribute or decent opinion, just gtfo of the thread, but i know there are about 1 or 2 members on this forum who are on my nuts like white on rice so they will probably have to make some childish, stupid comment.
long story short, met this girl off myspace (i dont wanna hear about it, myspace is just a communication tool) and we hit it off the first day. within a week, we were dating. (big *****, 32DD, size 3 waist i believe...tight ***...in other words, AWESOME body)
sad part is we fought a lot, mainly because she liked to pick fights about pointless, stupid shit. keep in mind this girl was on anti-depressants and other mood altering drugs by prescription (i didnt find out until weeks after i started dating her)
here's an example of what this girl would fight about.. she wanted a $450 coach purse for her birthday. i told her "are you nuts?" because we just started dating 2 months ago and i JUST got a new job. she went nuts telling me that if i didnt buy it for her i didnt care about her, etc etc. you can now see the kind of shit this girl would argue with me about.
i have 3 close female friends that i talk to about everything...and they all repeatedly tell me im one of the "hottest and nicest" guys they know and they dont know why any girl would **** up something with me. not here to toot my own horn but its proving my point, which is that im veryyy easy to get along with, i treat my girl right and i only act on suspicions when i know for a fact.
she told me she was going up to penn state to visit her cousin and to spend the night. i told her i wasnt comfortable with that especially since she was going to drink, and was going without me. i told her i would never do something like that (party) without her, and she promised me she wouldnt either.
another long story short she told me there would be no guys there. i call her, and what do i hear - a guy talking in the background. i ask her who it was. she told me i was "hearing things". i heard him talk a SECOND time. she denied it. i heard him talk LOUD, and i said WHO THE **** is that, she then screamed "OH MY GOD YOU CANT ****ING TRUST ME OMG I CANT TAKE THIS YOURE SO PARANOID".......meanwhile the guy is talking int he background the entire time. i hung up, and ended it.
got a text from her today (2 days after this incident) telling me she was "happy now and is with someone else"....
so i thought back, all those times she lied about where she was going, disappearing until 2am at times... she had excuses for everything and now i know that wasnt the case at all.
i dont know what caused this - both my family and close friends even said what the hell because they saw me treat that girl like a princess. the only thing i didnt do was lavish her with gifts, which i think is a false pretense for a relationship...money doesn't (and shouldnt) matter.
i just dont understand why she just threw away this relationship at the drop of a dime. through talking to some people who knew her, it seems to be a pattern - she dates a guy for a short period of time, quits, dates another guy, quits, etc. i only wish i knew that from the start... the ONLY reason i can figure out is i guess some females enjoy the "excitement" of new relationships, and once that "excitement" fades, they go looking for it again - regardless of the consequences of their actions.
****ed up, but thank god im not hooked on her anymore. if this was 2 weeks ago i'd be upset and crying like a little *****, but i've already mentally pushed out those feelings i had for her... just really confused as to why some people just have perfect relationships, and others get the shit end of the stick (Cheaters, liars, etc.)
ok well i'm not going to make this the "omg its over between me and my gf waaaaaaa" cry thread, i just am in a state of "why the ****"; if you dont have something positive to contribute or decent opinion, just gtfo of the thread, but i know there are about 1 or 2 members on this forum who are on my nuts like white on rice so they will probably have to make some childish, stupid comment.
long story short, met this girl off myspace (i dont wanna hear about it, myspace is just a communication tool) and we hit it off the first day. within a week, we were dating. (big *****, 32DD, size 3 waist i believe...tight ***...in other words, AWESOME body)
sad part is we fought a lot, mainly because she liked to pick fights about pointless, stupid shit. keep in mind this girl was on anti-depressants and other mood altering drugs by prescription (i didnt find out until weeks after i started dating her)
here's an example of what this girl would fight about.. she wanted a $450 coach purse for her birthday. i told her "are you nuts?" because we just started dating 2 months ago and i JUST got a new job. she went nuts telling me that if i didnt buy it for her i didnt care about her, etc etc. you can now see the kind of shit this girl would argue with me about.
i have 3 close female friends that i talk to about everything...and they all repeatedly tell me im one of the "hottest and nicest" guys they know and they dont know why any girl would **** up something with me. not here to toot my own horn but its proving my point, which is that im veryyy easy to get along with, i treat my girl right and i only act on suspicions when i know for a fact.
she told me she was going up to penn state to visit her cousin and to spend the night. i told her i wasnt comfortable with that especially since she was going to drink, and was going without me. i told her i would never do something like that (party) without her, and she promised me she wouldnt either.
another long story short she told me there would be no guys there. i call her, and what do i hear - a guy talking in the background. i ask her who it was. she told me i was "hearing things". i heard him talk a SECOND time. she denied it. i heard him talk LOUD, and i said WHO THE **** is that, she then screamed "OH MY GOD YOU CANT ****ING TRUST ME OMG I CANT TAKE THIS YOURE SO PARANOID".......meanwhile the guy is talking int he background the entire time. i hung up, and ended it.
got a text from her today (2 days after this incident) telling me she was "happy now and is with someone else"....
so i thought back, all those times she lied about where she was going, disappearing until 2am at times... she had excuses for everything and now i know that wasnt the case at all.
i dont know what caused this - both my family and close friends even said what the hell because they saw me treat that girl like a princess. the only thing i didnt do was lavish her with gifts, which i think is a false pretense for a relationship...money doesn't (and shouldnt) matter.
i just dont understand why she just threw away this relationship at the drop of a dime. through talking to some people who knew her, it seems to be a pattern - she dates a guy for a short period of time, quits, dates another guy, quits, etc. i only wish i knew that from the start... the ONLY reason i can figure out is i guess some females enjoy the "excitement" of new relationships, and once that "excitement" fades, they go looking for it again - regardless of the consequences of their actions.
****ed up, but thank god im not hooked on her anymore. if this was 2 weeks ago i'd be upset and crying like a little *****, but i've already mentally pushed out those feelings i had for her... just really confused as to why some people just have perfect relationships, and others get the shit end of the stick (Cheaters, liars, etc.)