What would you do....

[Injected54 10+ year member]

if you had a gf that tracked all of your messages that you post on forums...almost every day
constantly brings up the past and your past relationships

checks your phone, phone bills and emails when you are taking a shower

what would you do?

I was in a relationship similar to this one, the best thing I ever did was break up with her. In all honesty, dump her now and break all ties you have with her. If she's doing all this crazy shit now, what do you think she's gonna do when the relationship gets more serious, or goes on for a longer period of time. A lot of girls are insecure, crazy bitches with serious issues. There's also a lot that are cool as hell and are nothing like the girl above. There's so many girls out there, go find another one till you find the right one. Don't waste your life getting accused, stalked, and driven nuts by a crazy bitch.

is this really normal?

No it's not normal.

what if the man in question already spoken to her conutless times.....yet she goes back to not trusting and being paranoid

BTW...the guy has not cheated on her, but had female friends...something his gf does not like

She is Not going to change, leave now and save yourself a lot of headaches. All she's gonna do is drive you nuts and you're gonna waste a part of your life listening to her bitch, whine, and accuse you of shit. Springs here and summers right around the corner. Go out and have fun, find a new girl. Don't waste a chunk of your life on some insecure cunt that has nothing better to do then stalk and drive you nuts.

 

[snb778 5,000+ posts]

she's probably cheating on you, and doing everything she would cover up so YOU didnt find out...hence why she is in-secure.. def. possible

regardless, you either have to lay it down, or live with it.

 

[Slammed 5,000+ posts]

my friend thanks you all for the advice //content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/smile.gif.1ebc41e1811405b213edfc4622c41e27.gif

 

[crzystng 10+ year member]

she get him that CB yet? LOL

 

[1991Brougham 10+ year member]

I'd run away from her as fast as I could! You want psychogirl on your case for the rest of YOUR life?//content.invisioncic.com/y282845/emoticons/eek.gif.771b7a90cf45cabdc554ff1121c21c4a.gif

Rick

 

[maxine08]

i would kill her...

 

[22mountaineer 10+ year member]

Sounds like my ole lady, and thats why that bish is leaving TOMORROW

Didnt read it all so you might have went over it, she will probably talk him into not using a condom so she feels more loved and then after the kids he will realize how stupid it was and take him for all of his shit for 18 years

 

[bk12321 10+ year member]

f that my gf wouldnt know my password to this site

i say too much ****ed up shit

 

[funkyab 10+ year member]

How old are you. I think that would give a better point of reference for advice. Of course you will have an average amount of flaming on this thread but the fundamentals could help. And. any instances that would make her crazy in the way she is and her general history will always explain things.

I one time checked my ex. wifes emails and such because of a situation... OME i wish i had never done it. I still feel guilty and nasty. peoples private shit is their private shit. Of course sometimes we feel desperate, especially if we feel we are being deceived but in the long run, the spying will make one feel sick.. This is most likely how she feels.

just try to have a talk about privacy and what makes her feel so incredibly vulnerable and make you can make progress.

otherwise,,, LOCK YOUR SH!T DOWN!!!

 

[maxine08]

what if the man in question already spoken to her conutless times.....yet she goes back to not trusting and being paranoid

BTW...the guy has not cheated on her, but had female friends...something his gf does not like

something his gf dint like or SOMETHING you promised her??and what's the difference between cheating and lying and betrayal anyways..

 

[pilyin 10+ year member]

something his gf dint like or SOMETHING you promised her??and what's the difference between cheating and lying and betrayal anyways..

Girls like you seriously need to grow up. If you want a relationship with a guy to go well, you need to let them have their friends and trust them enough that something wont happen.

Thank God my wife allows me to have my friends and doesn't stalk me.

 

[hoxie08 5,000+ posts]

something his gf dint like or SOMETHING you promised her??and what's the difference between cheating and lying and betrayal anyways..

crazy *** ***** wtf is your problem.

 

[Hintzyboy 5,000+ posts]

I would dump the chick in a second. I can't stand suspicious people. Insecurity is a huge turnoff.

 

[Slammed 5,000+ posts]

 

[Flipx99 5,000+ posts]

My gf reads my posts. She used to lie about it, but now freely admits it.