My girlfriend has an 9-year old son....she made him with some fucktard haitian *sshole ! She's got an injunction on him and he can't even get close to his son. I could say that i'm almost the legal father of this kid and i treat him like i made him myself. When we walk in the street, you got me who is white, my GF who is white and the kid who is pretty black. It's funny cuz, when we meet some people, there is always an awkward moment where they don't know if the kid is mine or hers. We always make fun of it and say : '' well, he's ours ! what do you mean ? '' ahaha !
I don't see why one morning you would wake up and stop treating this kid like yours, even though the b*tch made him with some other dude. It's not the kid's fault and he must not pay for it ! i'd tell the b*tch to ****-off and still be the kid's father.