what i would do for a mint vr4
x2
to answer your last question, most people buy amps that are stronger than the speaker can handle and tone them down a bit. pretty comon to have headroom like that, though not necessary.
secondly, if your car behaves anything like my 350z did, dont even consider rear fill.
thirdly, get a 12 in sub. theyre not much more and youll like the output. maybe idmax, pretty much have to be used or pay close to retail from sounddomain for one, or w6 or really theres lots of subs. and i would get either a strong 2 channel to run the cmps or a weaker 4 channel and bridge teh channels. and then a mono amp for the sub. also probably going to want to go sealed for rock.
if it was me heres waht i would buy
h/u eclipse 8454 (try to find a store with leftover stock to get a good deal) 8455 if you can afford it
sub image dynamics idmax 12
amp orion 600d if a dual 2 sub or 1200d if a dual 4 sub
comps the latest rage seems to be rainbows, maybe the slc line here, or crystal sscs is supposed to be pretty good (ive never heard eitehr set though)
comp amp orion 6002
should be able to get this for less than 1500 if done right. theres also lots of options out there thoug hfor this price. but if i could choose one sub, that ive had or havent had, i'd choose the idmax again. i listen to rock/heavy metal and love that thing, wish i hadnt sold it.
edit:i have that 4 channel kicker amp listed above and am pretty ahppy with it. i got mine refurbed though for pretty cheap. if you buy kicker, go to their website and look up their authorized dealers and get a deal from one of those websites on their. and the rli subis supposed to be pretty nice also, especially for the money.
maybe look into diamond audio d6 as well