Now your trying to bring a whole different thing up. First off I would take it, considering there were no strings attached. You'd be suprised, people that have money/power, tend to try to control others. Why? Because everybody wants money, and people with money think they can get what they want because they have money. This is my grandma, she has money, but I will only get her money if I do as she says. Well I don't do as she says, so therefore I don't get her money because I will not kiss anybody's *** and will not be controlled by anyone.