Well.. it's a matter of who is selling what... unfortunately there is no way to know if someone is a 'good' seller unless they have been selling for a while and have good reviews..
It's safer to use credit cards (through something like paypal.. I'd not give it to an idividual myself) as you can dispute a charge with the company and most will go after whomever.. and you normally have 30 days before the billing cycle pays the charge, so if someone says it's gonna be there in, say, 4 days and you don't get it in 10 or 15, call the card company and cancle the charge.. should be ok.. And, places like PayPal have some safty things (gaurenteed purchases, etc)..
Make sure the person you are buying from has good reviews/comments about them. Someone with a significant negative feedback may well be a shiseter..
I've had nothing but good purchases from
eBay.. I've even sold EverQuest stuff there (way back in the day before Verant convinced
eBay to not allow sales) and had no problems with getting payed..
It all just depends.. I'd suggest mostly stores on
eBay (ikesound, etronics, etc etc) since they are probably the most trustworthy.. then people with significant numbers of 'good' feedbacks, and a VERY high ratio of good to bad (if they have to many bad, you might not like your experience).. If someone has no feedback, it's dangerous so make sure it's not something that's WAAY to good to be true (buy now things for very cheap are probably not a good idea).. but, remember, some auctions are really auctions and the price will start low (sometimes) or have a reserve..
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